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    I still feel like crap about it, but I know it was the right thing to do. He said he loved me quite early on, and I think it freaked me out and made me really think about what I was getting out of the relationship, and I realised pretty quickly that I didn't want to be in the relationship anymore and it was acting as stress for me, since I have so much work.

    Anyone else been through a breakup recently? I hate the idea that I'm now 'his ex-girlfriend that dumped him', it makes me sound like such a horrible human being, when really I just wasn't happy anymore...
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    I did with my first in August. Honestly, I only just feel that I'm actually over him now but I'm refusing to get into a relationship for a while yet. I want to focus on my last year at school.

    You did the right thing though, I think. You have to be happy and fully committed/wholly in the relationship and sometimes things happen in a way that is too soon like him telling you he loves you early on.

    You'll be fine, it just takes time! If you'd like anyone to talk to, feel free!


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    Thank you, it makes me feel better to know that I'm not alone in feeling like this It was six weeks after we'd started dating, two months after I met him, which I personally think was really early, especially since we're only 16.
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    lol bad luck
    sorry about the loss

    you ok
 
 
 
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