Attention whore friendzones me, then doesn't leave me alone

We've been seemingly close friends for much of the year and I totally fell for her. She's incredibly beautiful, she makes me laugh, we've both been single for a while, I know her to make her smile, we share so many common interests, we've spoken daily for months often being each other's wakeup call in the morning and last person to speak to at night. She has become a daily fixture in my life.

Now she's sleeping with some guy and I went through the bloody roof. I have hinted many times over the last few months how I feel about her and all she'd say is "Thank you for the compliment ". She supposedly made it clear that she'd friendzoned me and I am not her type at all.

Anyhow, we had a massive fall out, but within days we were talking again like nothing happened. And now she's parading this new f*** buddy of hers all over the internet like some sort of trophy and I've lost all respect for her. I'm sure her friends think she's an idiot too 'cause they're not even commenting/liking it.

I have been too available to her and equally she's become such an important figure in my life, so many of my positive emotions have been based on her presence.

However with what she's been doing the last few days, I'm unsure whether to stick around and pretend everything is hunky dory, wait till it blows over (they won't last forever), or whether I should cut all ties and move on?

I don't want to talk to her right now because I'm angry. I feel like I'm being used, I compliment her and take interest in her life, it's almost like I'm supplementing her emotional state while some dude supplements her physically. I wanted to do both. I want to see what she feels like when I am not around. What do you think is going to happen if I keep ignoring her? Should I start speaking to her again in a day or two? Should I make it clear after I have been ignoring her? She keeps messaging me and leaving FB wall posts and I've ignored them all. Most unlike me!

We've been seemingly close friends for much of the year and I totally fell for her. She's incredibly beautiful, she makes me laugh, we've both been single for a while, I know her to make her smile, we share so many common interests, we've spoken daily for months often being each other's wakeup call in the morning and last person to speak to at night. She has become a daily fixture in my life.

Now she's sleeping with some guy and I went through the bloody roof. I have hinted many times over the last few months how I feel about her and all she'd say is "Thank you for the compliment ". She supposedly made it clear that she'd friendzoned me and I am not her type at all.

Anyhow, we had a massive fall out, but within days we were talking again like nothing happened. And now she's parading this new f*** buddy of hers all over the internet like some sort of trophy and I've lost all respect for her. I'm sure her friends think she's an idiot too 'cause they're not even commenting/liking it.

I have been too available to her and equally she's become such an important figure in my life, so many of my positive emotions have been based on her presence.

However with what she's been doing the last few days, I'm unsure whether to stick around and pretend everything is hunky dory, wait till it blows over (they won't last forever), or whether I should cut all ties and move on?

I don't want to talk to her right now because I'm angry. I feel like I'm being used, I compliment her and take interest in her life, it's almost like I'm supplementing her emotional state while some dude supplements her physically. I wanted to do both. I want to see what she feels like when I am not around. What do you think is going to happen if I keep ignoring her? Should I start speaking to her again in a day or two? Should I make it clear after I have been ignoring her? She keeps messaging me and leaving FB wall posts and I've ignored them all. Most unlike me!

and also do you really want to be with a girl who behaves this way?

To be fair, i dont think she owes you anything, and you kinda come across as if you feel she does.

You said you take an interest in her life and compliment her as if you're entitled to something back just cos you do that. She is your friend, you're meant to take an interest in her life.

Unless she has specifically led you on, or given you signals, i fail to see what she has done wrong.

Clearly, you've been emotionally involved with this girl, but your mistake was only hinting and not outright asking. But if you suspected she wasnt into you the way you wanted, you should have stepped back from the whole scene.

If she is casuing you pain and grief (which clearly she is!), i think you ought to distance yourself from her. Its no good - and its certainl not healthy waiting around for her break up with this other dude.

Even if she does, who says she is gonna want you in that way? Its just gonna go back to the status quo, and you dont want that.

No, much better if you cut her out for now. You'll only punish yourself otherwise.