Why is it viewed as weird if a guy has a sex toy, but normal if a girl has one?Watch
Why is having a fleshlight gross? You just clean it by rinsing and put it back; it's just proper cleanliness. It's like saying wearing clothes is dirty cause sweat gets into it. Well duh, but you just clean it, lol.
. If someone found out a guy owned a sex toy (such as a fleshlight or pocket pussy) that he used to pleasure himself, he would immediately be viewed as a creepy loser. He can't talk about it among his guy friends because they would take the piss and ridicule him for the rest of his life.
But I get what you mean OP. I think it's just the difference in difficulty. I think it's fair to say that on the whole guys can climax easier without implements than girls. Also, what someone said about the presentation. A vibrator or a dildo, for the most part, is just a rounded cylinder. It's pretty plain, and what you see is what you get. A fleshlight is quite a violent depiction of a vagina and god knows what's inside. Thirdly, possibly just biased views in society. A girl pleasuring herself is usually presented as an erotic fantasy, whereas a guy doing the same thing...less so. You can come up for all kinda reasons for this, everything from societal conditioning to maybe the idea that hairy balls just aren't inherently sexy.
I don't understand this. It's commonly known that most girls have some form of sex toy (such as a dildo or vibrator) that they use to pleasure themselves. Many girls may discuss sex toys privately among their girl friends but it probably isn't something they would openly discuss in front of guys. If you find out a girl has a sex toy, it is a little embarrassing for both parties but after a short while, you shrug it off as normal and carry on living your life. Overall it is seen as perfectly normal for a girl to possess as sex toy.
The opposite couldn't be more true for guys. If someone found out a guy owned a sex toy (such as a fleshlight or pocket pussy) that he used to pleasure himself, he would immediately be viewed as a creepy loser. He can't talk about it among his guy friends because they would take the piss and ridicule him for the rest of his life.
I don't get this difference. Somehow it's perfectly okay for a girl to own a sex toy and pleasure herself with a bit of plastic but once a guy has a sex toy, it's seen as creepy and sad and if any girl found out, she would probably never want to be your girlfriend.