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Confused about boyfriend

Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs 9 months now but it seems like one minute we have a perfect relationship but the next it seems like im the last thing on his mind. We have two close mates who are going out and so we hang around with them a lot but when we are with them its as though its just those 3 and im left out. My boyfriend totally ignores me and when they are gone its like everything is fine again.What should I do?
talk about it, if you've been going out for so long you should talk about your problems together.
well thats very hard, but ill tell you something if you have been together for so long then why dont you talk to him or hug him :-) i know might sound mad but if there is something he dont want then hell tell you to leave off and if he dont then..... well it might be in your head okay or try to tell you best mate to just go off with her boyfriend and leave you 2 alone and then speek to him, but be nice
good luck!!!!
Reply 3
i have spoken to him and hes just like...do u want me to change?or just apologises an sez he wont do it again but then he does.:frown:
Reply 4
Hi, you sound like a very nice girl who does not deserve to be treated like that. He should be proud to be with you and put your feelings 1st.

I would suggest you sit down with him and express yourself to him in detail, and see what his reaction is. It sounds like he's failing to realise your presence anymore, and if he still wants to be with you, he ought to start caring and showing more affection towards you.

Hope that helps.