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Anonymous
LOL. an extremely embarrising problem, im 18 and have a hairy butt. its black hair and it can be seen, its not gorrilla hairy but its definately hairy, are girls put off by this? i really dont want to shave or wax --> HOW can i wax my buttside anyway??! :mad: man why me :mad:


:rolleyes:
Reply 2
thank u for this informative, well thought out and helpfull reply.
unless it's a rug then don't worry.

if you're so bothered then you could use hair removing cream.
Reply 4
tell your chick to take it off.
Reply 5
no don't do anything to it. i'd much rather my bf had a hairy backside than a spiky one, im talking about when the hair grows back. eeuuuugggghhh stubbly ass!! lol. its not even a big deal. guys with lots of dark hair will have it all up the backs of their legs (hamstrings) anyway so why would it suddenly just stop at your bum? if you're going to remove the hair be prepared to do a bit of your legs aswell, it wouldn't look/feel right. hairy backside, why not?! :smile:
I'm sure there have been threads on this before, and people said having it waxed would look far worse.
Reply 7
Don't even think about waxing or shaving it off please.

At least I wouldn't if I were you, and I would urge you not to feel so insecure about yourself such that you would need to consider this. Your partner should (and probably will) look beyond skin-deep if there's any love or chemistry between you two.

I understand your desire to please her but really, I don't think it's a very rationale step to take, especially in the long run.
squirrel_commander
unless it's a rug then don't worry.

if you're so bothered then you could use hair removing cream.

noooooooo
that will get stubbly as hell and give the guy a chronic rash.
plus what is worse - a guy with a bit of dark fluffy hair over their bum, or a guy constantly scratching his arse because of the hair irritation?
Reply 9
Leave it! Guys are meant to have hairy arses.
dont do anything, because if you get rid of the hair on your butt, and still have it on your legs or back, you will look like a nelly.
If it really bothers you and is affecting your confidence severely then try to remove it.

This doesn't have to be completely but maybe try trimming it a bit so its not so thick.

I'm sure this is quite a common issue and you are most probably not alone.
Reply 12
Back sack and crack if you're that bothered (and brave! :eek:)