Bf showering right after sex?

I'm not sure what to think about it, I know it's just a personal habit but I've never had another partner do it and in a way it kind of insults me, like he can't wait to erase every trace of me lol. I know he's not the only bloke who does it, but then I've never had it happen before.

He will cuddle for a small while, then hop up for a hot shower before coming back to bed. Sometimes I feel like I should be offering to shower too as surely coming back to dirty me in the bed isn't ideal!

How do other girls feel about it?

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Reply 1

PrinceOfCats

It's a psychological problem that some men and some women have. A sex guide or a modern medical dictionary will probably have something about it...

Reply 2

Glory

i dont think theres anything wrong with it, if he feels sweaty then a shower is good. Least he wont stink afterwards.

Reply 3

darryl

Maybe you're b/f just doesnt like being sweaty... thats not abnormal, is it?

I love the way people on this forum just jump to the worst possible conclusion - lol

Reply 4

PrinceOfCats

Maybe you're b/f just doesnt like being sweaty... thats not abnormal, is it?

'Jumping' into the shower after sex is completely abnormal, not to mention that this exact situation is described in just about every sex guide ever written...

Reply 5

darryl

wellhellosailor

He will cuddle for a small while, then hop up for a hot shower before coming back to bed. Sometimes I feel like I should be offering to shower too as surely coming back to dirty me in the bed isn't ideal!

I that doesnt sound to me like he is dashing for the exit when its all over.... maybe he is but thats not my impression, OP?

Reply 6

Glory

darryladie

I that doesnt sound to me like he is dashing for the exit when its all over.... maybe he is but thats not my impression, OP?

i agree with you, it doesnt sound like hes rushing off straight away, just having a breather and a cuddle and then showering.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

All guys after masturbation (Jerking off) go for a shower. Your bf also must be doing it and thats why his use to a shower after masturbation/sex. It's normal, dont worry.

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

All guys after masturbation (Jerking off) go for a shower. Your bf also must be doing it and thats why his use to a shower after masturbation/sex. It's normal, dont worry.

No they dont...

Reply 9

Leigh

Anonymous

All guys after masturbation (Jerking off) go for a shower. Your bf also must be doing it and thats why his use to a shower after masturbation/sex. It's normal, dont worry.

Good job that was anonymous :rolleyes:

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No they don't, but it's probably just to do with him not wanting to be sweaty. Why not ask him why? Or if you can come too?

Reply 10

Glory

i love sharing showers, i really cant see the problem with him showering though. Although it does seem a bit strange you never join him or get asked to join him.

If he was blantently refusing to share a shower with you afterwards or avoiding cuddling or being close afterwards. Id think you would have reason to be concerned.

Reply 11

zav

I don't see this as a problem he just prob likes to be clean. Sometimes i have had a shower with a girl after not a problem.

Sexy can be messy... maybe he just thinks its nice to go to bed clean after it or maybe its just a habbit. Ask him im sure he will be fine about it and just laugh it off

Reply 12

1013

Maybe it's a Catholic guilt thing? It does seem a bit odd but, if that's the worst of his habits, then don't stress.

Reply 13

Wayne Rooney

Maybe he's a little like David Beckham with OCD - where everything has to be neat and tidy, and by showering soon after your boyfriend achieves this. Just talk to him about it without making it sound embarrassing.

Reply 14

Sheen

i dont see whats the problem either.

i read in a magazine about this couple, the boyfriend has OCD and makes his g/f have four showers everytime before they have sex :confused:

Reply 15

darryl

That girl, has problems - OP sounds like you've been let off lightly!!

Reply 16

Wayne Rooney

Anonymous

Unlike Wayne Rooney who never showers and stays in his own filth. You can even smell the last couple of OAPs he bedded... sexy stuff!

I'm not actually Wayne, duhbrain! I just like him! :biggrin:

Reply 17

Happyness

how about having sex in the shower; works both ways..

Reply 18

saoirse

Ha ha Anon 1, good job you explained to this forum that masturbation means jerking off...

And oh, i dont think they do all leap for a shower after a ****...