Issue with work colleague

It seems as though one of my work colleagues has taken a dislike to me, although I havent a clue why.

This became obvious when she recently invited everyone else in the organisation apart from me to a party she was having. At the time I thought it odd but didnt really think much of it.

Anyway, last week she announced she was leaving and came into the office with a present for every other member of staff (all 8 of them) apart from me!! I havent a clue why, but as you can imagine I felt a right idiot! Especially as I have gone out of my way to help her in the past.

Im seeing her next week as we have a meeting, Im not sure how to react to her. I was thinking of ignoring her like she has done me, but I dont want to get into trouble. Should I say something or just leave it? As Im curious to what I have done wrong to be treated like this! (dont get me wrong Im not bothered about the present etc, its the principle of the thing!!)

What would you do; forget it or say something???

Reply 1

BlackHawk

Forget it, especially if she's leaving. If she isn't actually leaving then I would suggest a quiet word. Why worry about it if she isn't going to be around for much longer though?

Reply 2

ZigZag

I'd get more satisfaction out of treating her completely normally in the meeting, showing that her actions haven't affected me.

Reply 3

1013

Yeah, if she is leaving then don't bother.

If you really can't think of anyhting you have done, then you don't really have any issues to osrt out. Maybe she's just a bitch!

Reply 4

tbm

Thanks guys. I think I'll just leave it then and not bother saying anything. If she had a problem with me then she should have said so at the time I guess.