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my boyfriend part 2
excuse my spelling and stuff
im not to sure what is going on i need some advise,
well i met up with my boyfriend last tuesday (we'd only been together a couple of days) and he was all over me, i felt uncomfortable with it as he was drunk, so i explained to him how i felt he was having none of it and kept on badgering me,
so then the next day he realised he had been an idiot and couldn't stop saying sorry, and then he was explaining he was drunk etc etc,,,
we decided to actully make a go of it, (that was wednesday)
thursday i went out with a mate of mine for a girly night in the pub where my boyf works, he said he may not be able to talk to me as he will be working, (fair enough) he did ignore me, then later he said hi and continued to ignore me didn't even serve me so i had to wait for ages,
then i left to go to another pub and didn't see him after that,
then he text me saying sorry he ignored me on thursday (the next day he text me) ive not seen or heard from him since,
i told him i had no money on my phone or in my bank, and also i told him i dunt do one night stands and i want this to be taken slowly so im not letting myself be used,
i think he was only after one thing, its been nearly two weeks since we met and im not having to put up with being ignored everytime i go near the pub, maybe he was told something about me and didn't like it, (thats his problem to believe gossip over me)
i can't believe i tricked myself into saying i was happy meeting a nice guy etcc when deep down i knew he was only after one thing,
now do i A) wait to hear from him (like im going to do that lol)
or B) get rid and go and have a laugh with my mates and forget about him as he is clearly abit of a loser!!!!
im not to sure what is going on i need some advise,
well i met up with my boyfriend last tuesday (we'd only been together a couple of days) and he was all over me, i felt uncomfortable with it as he was drunk, so i explained to him how i felt he was having none of it and kept on badgering me,
so then the next day he realised he had been an idiot and couldn't stop saying sorry, and then he was explaining he was drunk etc etc,,,
we decided to actully make a go of it, (that was wednesday)
thursday i went out with a mate of mine for a girly night in the pub where my boyf works, he said he may not be able to talk to me as he will be working, (fair enough) he did ignore me, then later he said hi and continued to ignore me didn't even serve me so i had to wait for ages,
then i left to go to another pub and didn't see him after that,
then he text me saying sorry he ignored me on thursday (the next day he text me) ive not seen or heard from him since,
i told him i had no money on my phone or in my bank, and also i told him i dunt do one night stands and i want this to be taken slowly so im not letting myself be used,
i think he was only after one thing, its been nearly two weeks since we met and im not having to put up with being ignored everytime i go near the pub, maybe he was told something about me and didn't like it, (thats his problem to believe gossip over me)
i can't believe i tricked myself into saying i was happy meeting a nice guy etcc when deep down i knew he was only after one thing,
now do i A) wait to hear from him (like im going to do that lol)
or B) get rid and go and have a laugh with my mates and forget about him as he is clearly abit of a loser!!!!
Reply 1
I think you already know the answer to your question - b) GET RID!! If its such hard work after only a few weeks, is it really worth wasting any more time on this guy when you know already what his prerogative is????? Find a decent guy who won't ignore you, who will return your texts and who will give you the time of day like a nice lad should. 
Reply 2
I think you already know the answer to your question - b) GET RID!! If its such hard work after only a few weeks, is it really worth wasting any more time on this guy when you know already what his prerogative is????? Find a decent guy who won't ignore you, who will return your texts and who will give you the time of day like a nice lad should.
he must have some how tricked me into thinking he was a nice guy, then just turned into a loser even one of his mates told me to be careful,
i honestly can't be bothered with the hassle, of having to actully chase him as im going to look like a loser as well, lol i dunt want that now,
theres millions more out there why waste my time on one who isn;t worthy of my time lol
Reply 3
Anonymous
he must have some how tricked me into thinking he was a nice guy, then just turned into a loser even one of his mates told me to be careful,
i honestly can't be bothered with the hassle, of having to actully chase him as im going to look like a loser as well, lol i dunt want that now,
theres millions more out there why waste my time on one who isn;t worthy of my time lol
i honestly can't be bothered with the hassle, of having to actully chase him as im going to look like a loser as well, lol i dunt want that now,
theres millions more out there why waste my time on one who isn;t worthy of my time lol
Couldn't have put it better myself hun. You know deep down he's not right for you and call me old fashioned but the guy should be the one to chase - man love the thrill of the chase apparently! You know now he's only after one thing - don't give him the satisfaction of giving it to him!
Reply 4
14
Is it me or are all the girls on TSR (well, at least those who post on in H&R) incredibly neurotic. I'm yet to read a similar post from a bloke, and all the girls come across as incredibly paranoid about their boyfriend's behaviour.
For christ's sake, take some control and make a decision! Don't post on here about your boyfriend paranoia. You only seem to see him at work, where it's natural that he'll ignore you if he's busy. He's apologised for his behaviour twice, what more do you want. What's more, if you're not contacting him, what's to stop him thinking you're giving him the cold shoulder and that it's therefore not worth his while trying for a relationship.
Get communicating and get some perspective.
For christ's sake, take some control and make a decision! Don't post on here about your boyfriend paranoia. You only seem to see him at work, where it's natural that he'll ignore you if he's busy. He's apologised for his behaviour twice, what more do you want. What's more, if you're not contacting him, what's to stop him thinking you're giving him the cold shoulder and that it's therefore not worth his while trying for a relationship.
Get communicating and get some perspective.
Reply 5
Anonymous
he must have some how tricked me into thinking he was a nice guy, then just turned into a loser even one of his mates told me to be careful,
i honestly can't be bothered with the hassle, of having to actully chase him as im going to look like a loser as well, lol i dunt want that now,
theres millions more out there why waste my time on one who isn;t worthy of my time lol
i honestly can't be bothered with the hassle, of having to actully chase him as im going to look like a loser as well, lol i dunt want that now,
theres millions more out there why waste my time on one who isn;t worthy of my time lol
if he had good reason for not talking to you he would have called you and given you an explaination... forget about him and move on, have a good time with your mates on the positive side at least you have found out early what a looser he is....
Reply 6
Carl
Is it me or are all the girls on TSR (well, at least those who post on in H&R) incredibly neurotic. I'm yet to read a similar post from a bloke, and all the girls come across as incredibly paranoid about their boyfriend's behaviour.
For christ's sake, take some control and make a decision! Don't post on here about your boyfriend paranoia. You only seem to see him at work, where it's natural that he'll ignore you if he's busy. He's apologised for his behaviour twice, what more do you want. What's more, if you're not contacting him, what's to stop him thinking you're giving him the cold shoulder and that it's therefore not worth his while trying for a relationship.
Get communicating and get some perspective.
For christ's sake, take some control and make a decision! Don't post on here about your boyfriend paranoia. You only seem to see him at work, where it's natural that he'll ignore you if he's busy. He's apologised for his behaviour twice, what more do you want. What's more, if you're not contacting him, what's to stop him thinking you're giving him the cold shoulder and that it's therefore not worth his while trying for a relationship.
Get communicating and get some perspective.
Hmmmm when you put it like that...
Reply 7
s it me or are all the girls on TSR (well, at least those who post on in H&R) incredibly neurotic. I'm yet to read a similar post from a bloke, and all the girls come across as incredibly paranoid about their boyfriend's behaviour.
For christ's sake, take some control and make a decision! Don't post on here about your boyfriend paranoia. You only seem to see him at work, where it's natural that he'll ignore you if he's busy. He's apologised for his behaviour twice, what more do you want. What's more, if you're not contacting him, what's to stop him thinking you're giving him the cold shoulder and that it's therefore not worth his while trying for a relationship.
Get communicating and get some perspective.
For christ's sake, take some control and make a decision! Don't post on here about your boyfriend paranoia. You only seem to see him at work, where it's natural that he'll ignore you if he's busy. He's apologised for his behaviour twice, what more do you want. What's more, if you're not contacting him, what's to stop him thinking you're giving him the cold shoulder and that it's therefore not worth his while trying for a relationship.
Get communicating and get some perspective.
well i can't be bothered to continuasly have to explain myself i am better off out of it if he will ignore me for days on end and be in a bad mood towards me then i deserve better yet another loser to add to the pile
Reply 8
Anonymous
well i can't be bothered to continuasly have to explain myself i am better off out of it if he will ignore me for days on end and be in a bad mood towards me then i deserve better yet another loser to add to the pile
Decision made! Good luck
Reply 9
indeed i am now officially single after i have finished it well i rekcon its over before it even began
after a week or so,
i said to my mates if he does my head in after a week ill get rid, lol
a week later then planned lol
after a week or so,
i said to my mates if he does my head in after a week ill get rid, lol
a week later then planned lol
Reply 10
think u know the answer already!
Reply 11
Carl
Is it me or are all the girls on TSR (well, at least those who post on in H&R) incredibly neurotic. I'm yet to read a similar post from a bloke, and all the girls come across as incredibly paranoid about their boyfriend's behaviour.
For christ's sake, take some control and make a decision! Don't post on here about your boyfriend paranoia. You only seem to see him at work, where it's natural that he'll ignore you if he's busy. He's apologised for his behaviour twice, what more do you want. What's more, if you're not contacting him, what's to stop him thinking you're giving him the cold shoulder and that it's therefore not worth his while trying for a relationship.
Get communicating and get some perspective.
For christ's sake, take some control and make a decision! Don't post on here about your boyfriend paranoia. You only seem to see him at work, where it's natural that he'll ignore you if he's busy. He's apologised for his behaviour twice, what more do you want. What's more, if you're not contacting him, what's to stop him thinking you're giving him the cold shoulder and that it's therefore not worth his while trying for a relationship.
Get communicating and get some perspective.
Spot on i totally agree with that.
Reply 12
maybe i think i was very naive to think i could be remotley happy with anyone,
i just dunt see myself with anyone this one didn't work out over a few weeks imagine if it was months
im a disaster area when it comes to blokes,
lol
ill just stay single and see what happens lol (nothing)
oh well at least i won't get any hassle
i just dunt see myself with anyone this one didn't work out over a few weeks imagine if it was months
im a disaster area when it comes to blokes,
lol
ill just stay single and see what happens lol (nothing)
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