Bases!!!

The different sexual stages you get to over time with your boyfriend are often called bases, like in baseball. There is, however, a lot of discrepancy on whether oral goes third or AFTER intercourse, whether first base is wet kissing or touching above the waist...I'd just like to know what most people think they are. Just post it as:

1.
2.
3.
4.

Thanks!

Reply 1

bedbug

1. kissing with tongues
2. using hands to stimulate partner
3. oral
4. sex

Reply 2

gas_panic!

Less of this yank speak please.

Reply 3

subterfuge

i would agree with squirly.

how long before we get a load of people coming into this thread saying how immature it is? :rolleyes:

Reply 4

cloudofcalm

First base: kissing, touching above the waist.
Second: touching below the waist.
Third: Oral.
Fourth: PIV sex.

it.

squirly

1. kissing with tongues
2. using hands to stimulate partner
3. oral
4. sex

:dito:

Well it is kind of immature i suppose, but i use it with friends to avoid discussing anything in too much graphic detail!

Reply 7

SilverWings

1. Kissing
2. Manual sex
3. Oral sex
4. Sexual Intercourse

Wether this changes with sexuality, I'd like to know... like for a lesbian it could be

1. Kissing
2. Touching over clothes
3. Manual
4. Oral

But who knows, and who actually uses the terms?? :confused:

Reply 8

PlayboyBunny

Bases?

If you're not old enough to use real words, you're not mature enough to be doing it.

Reply 9

1013

squirly

1. kissing with tongues
2. using hands to stimulate partner
3. oral
4. sex

Ditto.

Reply 10

G.A.K

I find it weird how Oral is before having intercourse.... :p:

Perhaps I'm a prude!

Reply 11

SilverWings

jasonmraz

Bases?

[STUPID BIG TEXT]If you're not old enough to use real words, you're not mature enough to be doing it.[/STUPID BIG TEXT]

What if you're talking about it in front of people that aren't old enough to hear what you're saying. Or what if it's just easier to, so you're not being vulgar. Yeah, using bases is usually seen as an immature thing, but it isn't always. I know people in their 20's that use the terminology.

Reply 12

SilverWings

DaintyDuck!

I find it weird how Oral is before having intercourse.... :p:

Perhaps I'm a prude!

I think most people tend to be of the opinion that the ultimate sign of intamacy is sexual intercourse. The others are just stimulation using body parts - and sex is also but it's more - I dunno, I guess it's just more sacred of an act, or something. Then again, on a one night stand people are more usually open to having sex and nothing else. But in a relationship I believe the general trend to be kissing > manual > oral > sex. But I could have a warped view, I guess. Hmmm, I started this post sure that sex should be last, and now I'm not so sure. Personally I think having sex with someone is far more intimate and serious than oral sex, but that's just me.