HELP, personality Vs Looks

i got this gf, she ma 1st and we bein goin out for about 4 months. we like chillin and as i got 2 know her, the personalities just fit like so together, i would say she was got my dream personality that i would want from a girl. but here comes the problem, usually, i dnt go on looks , but i dnt seem to have much of a physical attraction to this girl, we kissed and stuff, but like i wish i was more attracted 2 her physically help :mad:

Reply 1

username47781

Personality is more important and being stunningly beautiful

Reply 2

SilverWings

Only you can decide which is more important to you. If you choose personality over looks then stay with her and be happy. If you choose looks over personality then have a fun like with your no-brain plastic barbie girl.

NB: I am not saying good looking girls never have good personalities, infact I have a girlfriend who is just that type of girl.

Reply 3

Ryan

There has to be some physical attraction though

Reply 4

Ryan

SilverWings

NB: I am not saying good looking girls never have good personalities, infact I have a girlfriend who is just that type of girl.

You're female though. He's not on about mates...he means it in the sense of being partners, not just friends that are girls.

Reply 5

zav

I think you need a balance. Personality is more important in the long run but if you are not attracted to her then surely you are more just friends?

Why do you want her to be anything more than a friend if this is the case?
Or is it that you are attracted to her but not as much as some other people

Reply 6

Happy_Rocker

^^maybe she is her parter...

Reply 7

zav

Ryan

You're female though. He's not on about mates...he means it in the sense of being partners, not just friends that are girls.

I think she is gay :smile:

Reply 8

randum_nandom

hay!!! well you said you dont go for looks right, so when you guys do kiss and stuff why dont you think of her personality and its not like shes totally not pritty right!!! :-)

Reply 9

SilverWings

Ryan

You're female though. He's not on about mates...he means it in the sense of being partners, not just friends that are girls.

NEWSFLASH: Lesbins exist!! :eek:

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

thanx 4 all the advice, i like her , but she not as attractive as some girls hey, but i do like her and i dnt wanna hurt her hey. i think personality is mo important, but i do have like a lil attraction to her looks, but not as much as i would like,

Reply 11

randum_nandom

well if you feel like that then maybe you need to fouces on how she looks i mean if you are attracted to her then maybe you want her to look like others which is wrong, dont worry just focus more on her!!! meaning looking at her personality and looks!!!

Reply 12

Ili

Carl1982

Personality is more important and being stunningly beautiful

Ryan

There has to be some physical attraction though

Combine those two together and they make a good advice - that's imo at least.

Reply 13

Strictly Business

Both important..

Good Looks + Bad Personality = :nn:

Bad Looks + Good Personality = :nn:

Good Looks + Good Personality = :yy:

Bad Looks + Bad Personality = :nn:

Reply 14

zav

Anonymous

That sounds like friend talk to me?

I think you should consider what you really feel about her as it is harsh to keep going with her if you don't really find her that attractive, i would not want somebody to be my gf if they thought that.

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

thanx again for all ur comment,s i decieded to stay wit her and be a couple and see hw things go, thanx agagin you guys realy helped me :smile:

Reply 16

hyper-little-mushroom-men

Heh. I went out for ages this year with a guy who was great company, and I really liked him as a friend (still do), but there was just no physical attraction at all. (First boyfriend.) Not for me, anyway. He was very sweet, but really shy - he never kissed me or anything. I broke it off in the end, because it just wasn't going anywhere... I think there has to be a level of physical attraction. We're still really good friends though... I cried when I broke it off, I felt so horrible! :frown: