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Hi everyone, i'm new to the forum but i've looked around for a while, but in a desperate plea for help i've decided to sign up. Anyway, can somebody help me please? I need advice.

I've been dating my girlfriend now for nearly 6 months, but recently my eyes have started to wander. Well, when i say wander, i mean that i've got 3 other girls on the go. This one lass yeah, rings me this morning and tells me she might be pregant. Problem 1 - what do i do?

Secondly, i arranged to take girl 2 for a meal, but in a mad rush, i also told girl 3 that i would take her to the cinema. Problem 2 - i can't possibly be with them both at the same time tonight! Which one do i go with?!

Please help, i've got to keep the girlfriend and the other 3 girls happy, and i don't know what to do!

:mad:

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I think you're on the wrong webforum.

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Stubbsylufc
Hi everyone, i'm new to the forum but i've looked around for a while, but in a desperate plea for help i've decided to sign up. Anyway, can somebody help me please? I need advice.

I've been dating my girlfriend now for nearly 6 months, but recently my eyes have started to wander. Well, when i say wander, i mean that i've got 3 other girls on the go. This one lass yeah, rings me this morning and tells me she might be pregant. Problem 1 - what do i do?

Secondly, i arranged to take girl 2 for a meal, but in a mad rush, i also told girl 3 that i would take her to the cinema. Problem 2 - i can't possibly be with them both at the same time tonight! Which one do i go with?!

Please help, i've got to keep the girlfriend and the other 3 girls happy, and i don't know what to do!

:mad:



Please tell me you're taking the p*ss.
If not, I hope you get dumped (four times over) and that no girl has really had the misfortune to fall pregnant to you.
Reply 4
jessicarabbit
I think you're on the wrong webforum.

You should try www.iama******com


I am a star? well thank you for the compliment, Jessy.
Reply 5
Own up to it to them all. Deal with the consequences.

Might not be what you want to hear.. but imagine being strung along like that!
Reply 6
Oh dear...and to think I have enough trouble getting just one :frown:
Reply 7
[rant] Dude, if the girls saw this, you would never get a date till 45. WTF are you thinking coming in here asking a bunch of random people(no offense to anyone, I am included in that) about which girl should you date. Get the **** off your lazy ass and make more comprehensive decisions. How old are you? You cant be much older than 15 if you are still asking these stupid questions.[/rant]

[calm]
Pick one, the pregnant one and stoping posting a ridiculous question like this. Women aren't cattle, you can't just treat them as you please. Do these 4 know about each other? Personally I think you should own up, or leave 3 of them. [/calm]
Reply 8
Carl
Oh dear...and to think I have enough trouble getting just one :frown:


I suppose you could take one off my hands mate? Beware though, she looks like Mutley off wacky races!
Reply 9
:rofl: I can see why you must be fighting them off with a stick!
Reply 10
Stubbsylufc
Hi everyone, i'm new to the forum but i've looked around for a while, but in a desperate plea for help i've decided to sign up. Anyway, can somebody help me please? I need advice.

I've been dating my girlfriend now for nearly 6 months, but recently my eyes have started to wander. Well, when i say wander, i mean that i've got 3 other girls on the go. This one lass yeah, rings me this morning and tells me she might be pregant. Problem 1 - what do i do?

Secondly, i arranged to take girl 2 for a meal, but in a mad rush, i also told girl 3 that i would take her to the cinema. Problem 2 - i can't possibly be with them both at the same time tonight! Which one do i go with?!

Please help, i've got to keep the girlfriend and the other 3 girls happy, and i don't know what to do!

:mad:


erm well fair play i won't condemn you for what your doing if you are actually doing it as you want advise.

i would say though that there is bound to be one of the four girls who will find out mate and then she will probably tell the other three. If I was you i would cut it off with all of them as You don't really look like a relationship person. Maybe if one of them is more casual just go with her?
You can't expect to have four gf's and how you have the time is quite unbelievable.
Sort yourself out and choose or you will end up with none. Might be the best thing for you are single and then you can do what you want.
Reply 11
Carl
:rofl: I can see why you must be fighting them off with a stick!


Stubbsylufc
I suppose you could take one off my hands mate? Beware though, she looks like Mutley off wacky races!


Ok this is the point where we all realise that you are joking, and that a person like you could never get 3 girls, much less one.

Stop posting useless questions.
Reply 13
jessicarabbit
Ok this is the point where we all realise that you are joking, and that a person like you could never get 3 girls, much less one.

Stop posting useless questions.


Stop with the personal abuse, go suck on a carrot love.

It's not a joke, i just don't see the point in having my head up my arse and not have the ability to laugh at times.
Reply 14
IMO, You'll be seen as a jerk and get dump by all of them. Jeez, just choose one and stick to her before it happens.
Reply 15
I wish i didn't bother posting some advise waste of time, grow up
Reply 16
layla*
IMO, You'll be seen as a jerk and get dump by all of them. Jeez, just choose one and stick to her before it happens.


thanks for the honest advice, i know i'm a dick but its a situation i didn't for-see. I want to stay with my original girlfriend, but now this other girl is pregnant i don't want to walk away, if that makes sense. Then again, it might not be mine?
Stubbsylufc
Hi everyone, i'm new to the forum but i've looked around for a while, but in a desperate plea for help i've decided to sign up. Anyway, can somebody help me please? I need advice.

I've been dating my girlfriend now for nearly 6 months, but recently my eyes have started to wander. Well, when i say wander, i mean that i've got 3 other girls on the go. This one lass yeah, rings me this morning and tells me she might be pregant. Problem 1 - what do i do?

Secondly, i arranged to take girl 2 for a meal, but in a mad rush, i also told girl 3 that i would take her to the cinema. Problem 2 - i can't possibly be with them both at the same time tonight! Which one do i go with?!

Please help, i've got to keep the girlfriend and the other 3 girls happy, and i don't know what to do!

:mad:


Chop your testis off.
Reply 18
[sing] Three, is a magic number![/sing]

Go with bachelorette number 3! She sounds the hottest!


Seriously though, come clean about it. They all deserve to know the truth - no one deserves to be played like that, especially if one of the girls may well be pregnant.
Reply 19
Stubbsylufc
thanks for the honest advice, i know i'm a dick but its a situation i didn't for-see. I want to stay with my original girlfriend, but now this other girl is pregnant i don't want to walk away, if that makes sense. Then again, it might not be mine?


If you want to be with the original girlfriend why did you start dating and sleeping with other girls? There is obviously something missing from the relationship. The first thing you should do is cancel the dates with girls 2+3. You then have to sort out the pregnancy issue and establish whether it is your baby. If it is then you have to own up as you will have a responsibility over what happens to the baby. If the baby is not yours you should get rid of girl 1 and sort out the situation witht the original gilfriend.