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love-which is important

there are two love
1) family
2) husband/ lover
which is more important???
family- supports you
lover- ypu spend the rest of your life with or dream of :confused:

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Reply 1

Glory

you cant compaire them. There different kinds of love and niether is more important than the other, there equal unless you have a bad relationship with your family.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

yes but say if one day you did have to choose
what would be your decision

Reply 3

suga_fly_77

Yeah they're definitely equal. Lol, I get jealous of my big bro's girlfriend sometimes though, it's like, "nooooo, you're stealing him!"

Reply 4

Glory

i couldnt chose, there totally different.

Reply 5

FranzFan

I guess it depends if you get on well with your family or not and also if you have a family with your lover because that may then take on more importance.

Reply 6

orbelina

theres also the love you have for your friends which imo is just as important

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

oh ya i didnt thk of that lol

Reply 8

there are four types of love *waits for someone smart to post them in greek*

Reply 9

Stubbsylufc

You can't pick your parents, but you can pick your friends.

I think it is completely based on your personal situation, whether you indeed like your family. Some people have a special bond with parents that will always be there, others don't. The person you really fall in love with though, and the one who you want to spend the rest of your life with, in my opinion, is the one person you truly love.

Reply 10

Happy_Rocker

you mean i cant have both? :frown:

more or less equal to me

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

i dono but theres one saying
parents are your past, your partner is your furture
what do you think???

Reply 12

Eternity Forever

Anonymous

i dono but theres one saying
parents are your past, your partner is your furture
what do you think???

Errm, then who is the present?

Reply 13

Anonymous #2

Thats a hard question... As said above they are totally different types of love. On one side your family will always be there for you no matter what and always support you in your troubles and hardships whereas your lover is same as well but the difference with your lover is that you spend your whole life with him/her. In my point of view they both equal i wouldnt see my lover as more superior then my family and vice versa.

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

mysterious lady

Errm, then who is the present?

i dono its a saying :biggrin:

Reply 15

everylittleting

Depends on the situation, i.e. my brother (white) has started a relationship with a girl (Asian) and her family just found out. They've made her choose between him and her family, and she's chosen him. I'm sure if she had to choose for some other reason (so her parents weren't forcing her to) then the choice would be much harder.

I sometimes think about who I would choose if I had to but I've never been able to come up with an answer. To be honest the idea of having to choose if one of the worst things.

Reply 16

Stubbsylufc

everylittleting

Depends on the situation, i.e. my brother (white) has started a relationship with a girl (Asian) and her family just found out. They've made her choose between him and her family

Unreasonable bastards. We are meant to accept "them" into our culture, yet they can't even date one of us. STUPID!

Pretty fly for a white guy :wink:

Reply 17

BlackHawk

devilbunny

there are four types of love *waits for someone smart to post them in greek*

storge, philia, eros, and agape

Reply 18

SparklesX

awww thats wel hard. i duno who id choose. one one hand ive got ma bf who i love so much n cudnt imagine ma life wivout im but then thers ma family who, as much as they p me off at times, i luv them all 2 pieces... however at this moment in time i wud actuali choose neither coz both ave p'd me off 2nite