Completely cutting off from Parents

duz anyone know the procedure for this? i wanna live alone cuz this is too much

Do you have the financial backing? If so sort out accommodation quickly and then get a couple of mates to help you move all your stuff out one day.

But how old are you and what's the problem?

Reply 2

Bubblebee

conexions and citizen advice buero (SP)! I wish you luck!

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

im 18 the problem is im under too much pressure from my parents every day is a challenge for me and i just want to get away from it all for a long long time

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

i dont have any financial backing so thats why im wondering how this could be possible without having any external aid

Reply 5

kookie_4

try and get a job doing anything it doesnt matter as long as it brings money in,, if your 18 and still at home put your name on the housing register at your council and tell them its urgent (you can make something absurd up so that they look at your case before others, cruel but true.) when you get a house/flat you can also apply for rent rebate this means that you dont have to pay the full amount of rent, the government pays for most of it and you pay for a small amount. then youll be laughing when you have your own place. im 17 and have the same problem as you ive gotten a job (started on monday) and hope to be raking in the dosh soon and hopefull look for a place.

Good luck with it.

ps. what exactly is the problem with your parents, why do you want to cut them off completely?

Reply 6

Note

Well without the finance there you have some pretty serious problems. Got a friend you can move in with? You might also be eligable for council housing. But again, whats the problem? It may contribute to helping you move out potentially.

Reply 7

dita_parlo

Unless you're pregnant, being physically abused, in danger of your life, your parents have thrown you out (for which you need written confirmation) or something else completly absurd, you'll be waiting AGES for a council property. If you're determined to move out, go out get yourself a job and start saving.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

im treated really badly.. i feel bound.. my parents are constantly fighting.. my mother tried to kill herself earlier..

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

What kind of pressure are you getting from your parents? is it that bad that you have too be driven out of your own house? anyway considering your age, living on your own might get difficult due to the financial side. Try looking for a part time job it might help with covering bills, food etc. Anyway in the meantime try talking to your parents and see if you can overcome this problem your experiencing.

Reply 10

kookie_4

do you seriously have to get it in writing like a note saying "i hereby throw out my son out of my house tada dee tada dum"

?????????????

and is this an official law?

please help..

Yea I think so. Well, I mean, when I was younger and thought I wanted to leave home, they [the council] told me they would need to see some "evidence" that I was being kicked out of the house and would have nowhere else to live.

Reply 13

BlackHawk

Get a job, save up and leave.

Or go to the council and declare yourself homeless. They may place you in a shelter. You can then go onto benefits and try to get a job.

Reply 14

Anonymous #3

also need this kinda help..i m gettin sick of livin with my family...n the main problem is my dad..he got really sick mentality..i m a 19 yrs old girl n i got 1 sister who is 17..my dad is havin bad feelings..u knw wht i mean...today i talked 2 my mum abt it..n she said me n my sis gta do smethin to protect ourselves...i really dunno wht to do next..i knw if my dad try to do smethin wrong wid me..i wll speak against him...but dunno abt my sis...yesterday my dad kissed her lips..n later she cried alot...n she ws goin 2 take paracetomol tablets..but i saw n stopped her..i dnt wnt her 2 do nythin silly

well i work part time..n earn like £70 in 2 weeks...i dunno if i shud stop my studies in middle n look 2 live smewhere else..but i really wna leave this house, especially 'dad'

plz reply

thnks

Reply 15

Note

Call the cops or social services would probs be better in this case as it doesnt seem to have gone too far. Council will definately put you up if you are worried about being sexually abused and there is grounding for those concerns.

DO NOT stop your studies.

Reply 16

Anonymous #3

i dunno really...but i dnt wana involve cop as i hve my little brotha n thn dnt want any kind of disrepute...cant i just move away frm home or tke a gap yr
i knw it gna be hard
coz i hve finsihed my AS exams this month n still waitin 4 results..dunno wht gna happen though..

Reply 17

Purple

Do you have grandparents, if so go and live with them or a friend, get a full time job over the summer, put yourself on the waiting list for a council house, and wait.