Chemistry/sexual tension/whatever you want to call it!

My question is..is it always mutual? Or could it be a totally one-sided thing?
Just wanted to know what you guys think..

Reply 1

Glory

can be both. Especially if the other partner is lacking a sex drive, then its one-sided there are other reasons of course for it being one sided.

edit: added a bit.

Reply 2

Caribou

chemistry is a two way thing.

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

Trust me it can be one sided!
And it sucks!!!!
Espescially if youre mates, and you see each other a lot.
what's ure situation?

Reply 4

suzie_h

Anonymous

Trust me it can be one sided!
And it sucks!!!!
Espescially if youre mates, and you see each other a lot.
what's ure situation?

Yep, I know the feeling, I've been in that situation, majorly sucks :frown:

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Anonymous

Trust me it can be one sided!
And it sucks!!!!
Espescially if youre mates, and you see each other a lot.
what's ure situation?

I'm a girl who's been best friends with a guy for ages. I've always had this gut feeling whenever I'm with him, something tells me it's mutual, but then I decide not to act on it just in case it's not.

Sorry if this seems a bit pointless :redface:

Reply 6

Kunster1337

I really agree with above..!

Reply 7

Dave.B

ma, can be anything TBH....
for example - met a girl today through another female friend, she seems great and i would say we have 'chemistry'... only prob is you never know do you :P

yeah.... thats my pointless input there

Reply 8

frappuccino

Yeah I think it can be one-sided, if someone really likes you and is attracted to you then they tend to interpret your actions as advances etc. and while you feel completely indifferent sitting next to them, they might have butterflies and feel tension.