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Anthonyjm71

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Finding it so hard to talk to people.

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1013

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People always feel like that about people they really really like The trick is to act cool and not to let on that you are crazy about her.

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Maireleghra

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Please go talk to her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know its hard but if you don't she could think you are really rude or worse, a scary stalker type. You wouldn't want to ruin something that could be great because of inaction, would ya? Just go up to her and ask for the time or something that could give you a precedent to chat to her again. Just think how amazing it'll be the day you can go up and have a proper fun flirty convo and come away with her number...!

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matt@internet

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With the girl I like, actually no. I haven't had any fear of talking to her, just in asking her out.

EDIT:Yay. Now I'm an adored and respected member :biggrin:

Reply 4

Beckie_88

Just go and talk to her. She is a person just like everyone else and she should respect you for making the effort to talk to her if she doesn't then she isn't worth your time.

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Caribou

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****ing trolling :rolleyes:

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Eccentric Man

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Trust me, it's not easy; I've just lost a chance of a girl l really liked. The trick is, in hindsight, don't think too much. Being disabled pretty much all over l constantly started adopting the 'well, would l wanna **** a girl like me' line of thought- which was wrong of me. The trick is [and sorry if this sounds sexist] never look more than a few metaphorical inches up to a girl you like. DON'T LET THE SITE OF HER MAKE YOU FEEL SMALL!

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Dude

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The main thing is to try and not get stuck in the Friend Zone.

God knows I've been there too many times

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GunsNRoses

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Dude

The main thing is to try and not get stuck in the Friend Zone.

God knows I've been there too many times

Too true!

As for the original point, definately go and talk to the girl. I should have done the same thing but I didn't and now the girl I like has a boyfriend which has really pissed me off. Seriously, it feels like **** to keep thinking what might have been if only and so just try talking to her and see what happens.

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minicoopa

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I love it when guys come up and chat to me (I'm a girl :tongue:

) ALTHOUGH if they are too much, it just annoys me. Sometimes it is just all about eye contact. If you are really really shy, just make eye contact with a girl, and if she is interested (and like me :tongue:

) then she would come over to talk to you.

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Mike23

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Just think she is another girl, then you should feel comfortable the next time you talk to her.

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JustJam2006

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Anthonyjm71

Has anyone being crazy about a girl but to terrified to talk tp her when you see her in the same place as yourself??

Talk to her - this is assuming you know her in some way as it might appear strange to go up and start speaking to a stranger as if they were a long lost friend....though this is the story of my life :rolleyes:

. Try to act cool and just say hello...you never know she may just say hello back. Good luck...we don't (all) bite :biggrin:

Make a joke out of the fact that you two seem to always bump into each other (if you do that is)....that should ease the tension/ break the ice...Bonne chance!

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L i b

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Maireleghra

Please go talk to her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know its hard but if you don't she could think you are really rude or worse, a scary stalker type. You wouldn't want to ruin something that could be great because of inaction, would ya? Just go up to her and ask for the time or something that could give you a precedent to chat to her again. Just think how amazing it'll be the day you can go up and have a proper fun flirty convo and come away with her number...!

Argh. The only people that ask you the time these days are muggers.

Personally I support the direct approach - cards on the table and all that. To be fair, the girl probably realises that random men approaching her are probably at least somewhat attracted to her.

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Mark S

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Anthonyjm71

Has anyone being crazy about a girl but to terrified to talk tp her when you see her in the same place as yourself??

Terrified isnt the word i'd use, but i have been reluctant to.

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Crimson Black

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LibertineNorth

Argh. The only people that ask you the time these days are muggers.

You're right. The one and only time I got mugged was when someone asked us the time - a friend of mine actually saw through it and told us to walk faster, but there was me all naívely thinking he really wanted the time, at 1am or so.
:frown:

Reply 15

simatemcprimate

I only find it hard to talk to girls when there's nothing to talk to them about! But I have massive convo's with all my mates who are girls on stuff like comedy etc!

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Anthonyjm71

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Beckie_88

Just go and talk to her. She is a person just like everyone else and she should respect you for making the effort to talk to her if she doesn't then she isn't worth your time.

yes that is true.

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Anthonyjm71

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simatemcprimate

I only find it hard to talk to girls when there's nothing to talk to them about! But I have massive convo's with all my mates who are girls on stuff like comedy etc!

I find that true.

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Anthonyjm71

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Want the bird to begin the chat first well spoken atleast they normally have several things they want to tell each other about.

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