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Am I a tart?

Okay so I met this guy in a club last night, we didnt talk only got each others name, and I have his number. Admittedly I was pretty drunk, but by the end of the night we were snogging and just all over each other! I just dont want to be classed as one of those tarts who everyone looks at in disgust!!

By the way, Im thinking of texting him. What to say....!?

Reply 1

lamps

So, which question do you want answering, "am i a tart?" or "what should i text"? For the first question, i'd say yes. For the second question, how about listing every single one of your hobbies and interests...This really is a stupid thread, how is anyone else meant to advise you on what to text!?

Reply 2

zav

14

Okay so I met this guy in a club last night, we didnt talk only got each others name, and I have his number. Admittedly I was pretty drunk, but by the end of the night we were snogging and just all over each other! I just dont want to be classed as one of those tarts who everyone looks at in disgust!!

No your not a tart, you were drunk and had a bit of fun. You kissed him whats the big deal you didn't go back to his place and shag him and so what if you did who am i to judge. If your single and safe there is nothing wrong with what you did and you seem to like him as you want to text him.

By the way, Im thinking of texting him. What to say....!?

Yes its hard for us to say but how about, hi just thought i txt you and say hi, maybe if you are near "insert home town" we can go for a coffee. "name" x

I dunno its only an idea but something not to full on but nice :smile:

Good luck

Reply 3

miss_lovely

lol that doesn't make u a tart! u met a guy, liked him, so pulled him. doesnt make u a tart at all. drunkedness just gives u more confidence. and yes if u like him and would like to see him again then go for it and give him a call or a text! but dont do it now. if it wos only last night then ul seem to keen, leave it another 1 or 2 days and then give him a call and say uv been busy

Reply 4

Muse

13

You dirty slapper. Next it'll be prostitution.

Reply 5

cameleon

OP

No I would never have I one night stand! The thing is when we were dancing I just was thinking 'you are way too good for me and your only dancing with me because your drunk'. Thats why I think maybe its better not to meet people in a club situation because if we ever did meet up after (sober and in daylight!) he would just run a mile! I dont think that would do much for my confidence or self-esteem. So should I bother? God...just re-read that. No wonder I'm single. No self-assurance is so unattractive.

Reply 6

musicbloke

17

yes, you must be a disgraceful miscreant. Go wash yourself.

MB

Reply 7

AT82

Well if you're a tart then I am certainly am. Even I have done that in clubs I am biggest disaster in the world as far as girls are concerned. The fact she was about 40 spoilit though.

Reply 8

zav

14

cameleon

No I would never have I one night stand! The thing is when we were dancing I just was thinking 'you are way too good for me and your only dancing with me because your drunk'. Thats why I think maybe its better not to meet people in a club situation because if we ever did meet up after (sober and in daylight!) he would just run a mile! I dont think that would do much for my confidence or self-esteem. So should I bother? God...just re-read that. No wonder I'm single. No self-assurance is so unattractive.

Never put yourself down, nobody is better than you and im sure you are great looking. I recon the guy prob thought that too that night and if he met you would see why he did that night.

Go for it no harm can come from it if he says no his lost move on and you will find the right person

Reply 9

1013

1

No, you're not at tart. At least, that is my diagnosis based on your initial post.

Text him and say 'hi, fancy meeting up again?'.

Reply 10

~Hena.87~

1

cameleon

Okay so I met this guy in a club last night, we didnt talk only got each others name, and I have his number. Admittedly I was pretty drunk, but by the end of the night we were snogging and just all over each other! I just dont want to be classed as one of those tarts who everyone looks at in disgust!!

By the way, Im thinking of texting him. What to say....!?

Sorry just had to say this:
Are you round, flat, and are couverd in fruit?
No, well you're not a tart!
To answer your question properly, you just seem like you're having fun.
If you don't get too caried away, then there is no problem.
I hate it when people automatically call women "tarts" or "slags" or "sluts" all the time but guys are considered cool or a "player" if he gets loads a girls... unfair?

Reply 11

Apricot_Bea

1

Text him something like "hey, did you have a good night last night etc"

Reply 12

Happyness

14

text saying, "please come to my house, and give some more of the action that i say coming from you last night"

Reply 13

Barny

17

AT does that mean you finally kissed a girl...?

Reply 14

zav

14

x.narb.x

AT does that mean you finally kissed a girl...?

Reply 15

Lush Law

15

Have you been to clinic yet?

Reply 16

rawkingpunkster

a tart would be delicious

Reply 17

Tw!stEd

2

I cant be assed to read all the replies...
However...
DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT AND ENJOY...
If ya wanna get on ten boy's a night, do it...
Why do you care what others think...
Stop trying to be socially desirable n be yourself...

Reply 18

Daisy Chain

hey that doesnt make u a tart or anything else u had a good time as long as u and him had fun then their is no harm their r girls out there who do allsorts be proud :smile:

Reply 19

bluenoxid

13

<==TART

Youve gained a pastry base and a fruit topping, you really need to see a doctor about that, it could be really serious :rolleyes:

Am I a tart?

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