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I have been with my boyfriend for a while now and recently gave him head for the first time (and first time ever for me). The thing is, i cudn't help thinking i was doing it wrong. This really is not a thread for sex tips and i really hope it is not too graphic to be posted and doesnt get taken away.
The thing is that while i was doing it i used my hand at the base also, but didn't have a clue what i was doing! I didn't know whether i was supposed to move the outer skin aswell with it, or just move my hand up and down the outside??
Like i said, this is genuine and whilst i cud talk to my bf about it, i really dont want him to know im THAT dumb. Please help!
Reply 1
Did he come? That's the only important thing, isn't it?!
Get him to tell you what he liked and didn't, it's the only way you'll know if you were doing it right. But you're never going to be perfect the first time, anyway. Practise makes perfect and all that jizz, sorry, jazz.
Reply 3
your boyfriend won't think ur stupid. does he know it was your frist time? also tbh you probably wern't that great,no1 can expect to be for their first go! and all guys like different things, talk to him about it and see which parts he likes u to give 'special attention' to, and gradually ul just develop a technique that you feel comfortable with and he enjoys. all it takes is practice, and he definately won't be complaining!
Reply 4
I have been with my boyfriend for a while now and recently gave him head for the first time (and first time ever for me).


I am sure he will understand and he is just greatfull that you would do that for him.

The thing is, i cudn't help thinking i was doing it wrong


Don't worry about it im sure it was nice and everyone improves as they go along, just see what he likes and do that more.

This really is not a thread for sex tips and i really hope it is not too graphic to be posted and doesnt get taken away


Up to the moderators

The thing is that while i was doing it i used my hand at the base also, but didn't have a clue what i was doing! I didn't know whether i was supposed to move the outer skin aswell with it, or just move my hand up and down the outside??


It depends what he likes hun, try different things and see what he likes best. He might tell you to do something more or if not do different things and ask what he likes best.

Like i said, this is genuine and whilst i cud talk to my bf about it, i really dont want him to know im THAT dumb. Please help!


He won't think your dumb, you want to do it so he likes it and he wants to like it so just ask and see what he thinks. If not just keep going and you will get better as you can tell from his reaction as what he likes.


Hope this helps

Zav
Reply 5
Practice and talking to him is the best thing you can do.
Reply 6
Glory
Practice and talking to him is the best thing you can do.


Indeed. If you do want tips, there are plenty of websites out there for them. This just happens not to be one of them.