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Missing him :(

I guess I just need to vent here. I haven't seen my guy for abuot four weeks and was supposed to be seeing him tomorrow but he's got loads of work to do for college that he thought he had more time for than he actually does, so he cancelled tomorrow and we have no idea when we're going to see each other next. He doesn't even seem to be able to spare a couple of hours for me, and though we're not proper girlfriend and boyfriend (we used to go out, it's complicated..) I still really miss him. Plus I've finished sixth form and all my exams now and apart from trying to get overtime at work I have no idea what to do with myself. All I want is to be with him :frown:

Reply 1

teh_samby
I guess I just need to vent here. I haven't seen my guy for abuot four weeks and was supposed to be seeing him tomorrow but he's got loads of work to do for college that he thought he had more time for than he actually does, so he cancelled tomorrow and we have no idea when we're going to see each other next. He doesn't even seem to be able to spare a couple of hours for me, and though we're not proper girlfriend and boyfriend (we used to go out, it's complicated..) I still really miss him. Plus I've finished sixth form and all my exams now and apart from trying to get overtime at work I have no idea what to do with myself. All I want is to be with him :frown:


Awww :hugs: I feel the same way except I don't know when I'll get the chance to meet the guy that I fancy. He probably broken the ties that we 'had' and I don't know what's going to happen between us. At least you'll get the chance to see your guy again. Why don't you plan something out ahead when you two are free again? Ask him to spare some time for you if he cares about you. Or why don't you visit him at his college? I'm sure he'll be happy to see you. Bring something along while you're at it like a picnic basket or something and then you two can at least have lunch together for the day. *sigh* I know how it feels though. I miss the guy that I fancy too though I don't know if he knows it...

Well anyway, now that you have more time to spare, try making both of you work during the day so that you two can meet up at night for instance. Then make the weekend work free and both of you can spend some time together then too. That's just a thought though. Good luck and cheer up. :wink:

Reply 2

Don't be too clingy. Guys hate that. Is that why you're not together properly?

Reply 3

No. A proper relationship never seems to work with us. He's as clingy as I am sometimes.

Reply 4

Well sorry to sound harsh but his work has got to come first, maybe get him to call you when he's done all his work.

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