I have a problem involving my ex's older brother

A 23 yr old interested in a 16 year old.

It may not be illegal, but boy is it ****ing sad..

A 23 year old can't connect with a 16 year old?

Seems pretty shallow to me.

So you don't think that a 23 yr old wanting to date a 16 yr old is a tad bit creepy? and that he wants you for sex, or that he targeted you because you are young and naive?

Well we were so close and all I really didn't consider it..I guess I didn't want to consider it...well he's in wales at the moment so I'm well away from him. But thanks for calling me dumb it brought me back to earth

It was just tough love babe, you don't want to be getting into situations like that, you're far too young.

My partner is 8 1/2 years older than me and we started going out when I had just turned 17 - however we had been friends for over a year and we didn't have a situation anything like what you describe (also I was the one that initiated everything) I would be treading very carefully it could be a very awkward situation and not particularly in your favour from what I can see. I would seriously question his motives given the situation.

Tell your ex , for the good of humankind . No good brother would ever think of doing such a thing , your ex deserves to know how much a dick your brother is.