Lately, I’ve been having a little wonder about things. I’m in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years. I love him, and all is great at the moment. Before him, I was in another (long-ish) relationship, which lasted just over a year and a half. I’ve recently started a new job, where I work with a load of girls all they go on about is getting dressed up to go out on a Saturday or Friday night, and generally have a laugh, they try to ‘pull’ guys they like as well. And it got me thinking, I can’t do that. The whole guy thing I mean. I mean, I don’t want to exactly it’s just…hard to describe, Im missing that feeling, of liking someone, having little looks with them, wondering if they like you (wow, that sounds like what I used to when I was 13 lol) or so , I miss the excitement of it all .I feel I have missed/am missing out on that ‘fun young’ part of my life.
Does anyone feel like this? And if so, how do you get over it?
Does any of this make sense? I’m not too good at putting my feelings into words when it comes to relationship matters.
xxx