He likes me.. but is avoiding me!

There's this guy who I like, I met him last summer at a holiday resort, althought we flirted and everything I had to come back to England so nothing happened. I had the guy's msn so we talked from there a few times, but he always seemed distant and didn't answer me sometimes.

A few months ago he told me he really likes me, and that he also did in the summer but didn't have the chance to tell me. I told him that I also liked him in the summer, but I didn't say anything about now.

After that he kind of avoided me again. A few weeks ago I texted him telling him that I really like him, and he replied by saying he didn't expect it and stuff, but didn't say anything else. He said we'd talk if we see each other. The thing is he's been avoiding me since that time, didn't text me or hasn't been or msn either.

What is this guy playing at?

Reply 1

Glory

maybe he doesnt wanna fall in love with text. I mean msn and sms isnt a great enviroment for a relationship. How long distance are you?

Reply 2

Dragon24

He's playing it really cold. I never understand why people do that, doesn't get you anywhere. Depends if your relationship can survive long distance - they can in some cases. But do you really want to be dating someone who is interested the one minute and blows you off the next?

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

We're quite far away like 4 hours by plane :frown:

Yeah it is really annoying the way he's acting, it hurts me alot because he gives me hope and then he destroys it all.

Reply 4

Fluent in Lies

Maybe they're scared.

Awwww.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

He's also 20 years old, not 16 or anything so he's suppose to be quite mature.

Reply 6

Fluent in Lies

Anonymous

he's suppose [sic] to be

Exactly.

Reply 7

Glory

hes probabily unsure whether he wants a long distance relationship that uses msn as the only point of contact.

Ive tried having a long distance relationship, and as much i liked the guy. The distance was a pain, your not single yet you dont have a proper relationship. Its very restricting, you cant see other people or someone you love.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Do you think it could be the fact that he's regretted what he's said and is now interested in someone else? I have a feeling he won't meet me in the summer because of all this avoidance stuff he's doing :frown:

Reply 9

1013

If all you did was meet on hol and then MSN, you haven't really got much of a foundation for a long term relationship. If he's being off, I would just suggest leaving it and finding someone a bit closer to home. There are too many guys uot there to be bothering with someone who is being distant and who you don't know that well anyway.