Relationship based on lust....?

Ok...so ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years...and we love each other...but lately, he keeps commenting on my boobs and keeps staring at them...i know that sounds v stupid considering that we've been together for so long..and we've had sex too...but its getting really annoying now...its like all he thinks about...i shouldnt be getting angry but i am because its just annoying! ive tried talking to him but he thinks im joking... help!

Reply 1

Whats the problem? Guys tend to like breasts. If he's making negative comments then that's a bit different but otherwise just put up with it. What harm does it do?

Reply 2

sak-y

tell him at a serious time...in a serious tone...that might get the message across! :smile:

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Mad Caddie

Whats the problem? Guys tend to like breasts. If he's making negative comments then that's a bit different but otherwise just put up with it. What harm does it do?

But its all hes on about these days! it gets kinda annoying after a while. imagine if your gf kept commenting on your **** all day long!

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

But its all hes on about these days! it gets kinda annoying after a while. imagine if your gf kept commenting on your **** all day long!

She did.. it was ace :biggrin:

stop being so boring, im sure its not the only thing he talks about, youre just picking up on it more.

Reply 5

getupkid

I'm not sure it's really fair to say that just because your boyfriend has recently been staring at your body more than you'd like that your "relationship is based on lust"; I don't think you'd have lasted for 4 years if that was the case..! Obviously if there's more to it than him frequently looking at your boobs then maybe it's a fair statement to make, but from what you've said here it seems a little dramatic.

I'm not quite sure exactly what it is that's bothering you about this, as I think many women would be flattered by attention like this from their boyfriends, and offended if their boyfriend never looked at them like that. Obviously though, if it seems excessive and abnormal and this is why it's bothering you, then sit him down and talk to him about it. In fact, I'd just talk about it to him anyway, try to work out whether his behaviour is abnormal and a little extreme, or whether you're reacting to completely normal levels of boyfriend attention it in a bad way because it makes you feel uncomfortable/self-conscious etc. Given that you've only made a short post here and we've not heard his side of the story, it's impossible to tell which of those two things it is. Anyway, I think a good talk with lots of honesty could probably sort this out :smile:

I'd try not to come across too aggressive or annoyed, but just explain calmly what you're feeling. Best of luck!

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