A question for girls

Interesting thread. Looking forward to the responses

I'd be flattered, but would assume you were taking the mickey.

What would your reaction be

Get a friend to hook you up
Go clubbing and hope you find a decent girl

That's all

London isn't like other cities (e.g. Newcastle) half the women may politely tell you they aren't interested/ have a boyfriend the other half will simply ignore you straight up or tell you to **** off.

I'm a guy sorry

yes I know my thing has a female gender sign.

If a girl did it though I would probably take it seriously, I suppose I'm naive in that respect

what do you mean as In I was trying to make a joke out of you ?

Okay, I don't want this question to come accross in the wrong way so I will try and word it correctly.

I have never had a problem getting girls or girlfriends as such but since moving to london a few months back I am finding it hard to meet new people as I spent my whole life in bournemouth.
I don't like using dating websites and the people I hang around with dont attract the sort of girls I would class as someone I would want a relationship with.

So what I am wondering is if a guy you thought was fairly attractive just walked up to you in the street and seemed like a nice sort of person and just came out and said something like " hey, I know you have no idea who I am but your really pretty and I was wondering if we could hang out sometime " or something along those lines what would your reaction be.

I like the idea of seeing a girl I like the look of and just doing that but my confidence being low and fear of being thought of as a weirdo or someone just looking for sex stops me.

Any advice or tips would really be appriciated, as I said i'm not really into dating sites I prefer to meet people the natrual way but have found it hard to meet the " right " sort of my girl for me since moving here.

Thanks C

I cant really imagine why anyone would think someone was taking the micky, Why would someone play a sick joke like that by themsevles without even friends with them to laugh at it, Bit sociopathic

I'm a guy sorry

yes I know my thing has a female gender sign.

If a girl did it though I would probably take it seriously, I suppose I'm naive in that respect

traitor!

OP I would be flattered but probably very embarrassed. It's very forward. Although some girls like that.

Is london really like that ?
I do go clubbing and don't have a problem "getting laid" if thats what your reffering to, but thats not what i'm looking for.... Besides I don't tend to see the kinda girls I like in clubs that often anyway.

I think that's a bit too bold and in your face coming from a complete stranger tbh, especially the 'I know you have no idea who I am' part Instead find something to make small talk about like the weather or another neutral topic and then after a few minutes you can gauge her reaction to see whether she's interested or not. Asking someone to hang out without even talking a little bit first seems like a bad move to me.
Another thing is that appearance does matter, make sure you're well presented and people are less likely to think you're a creepy weirdo, and the confidence will come soon enough once you realise that even if you do get rejected, you haven't lost much at all and you can learn from it