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So confused i need opinions

Ok theres this guy ive got a thing with and well laterly its becoming more than a thing and more like we are going out, he calls me his gf and things to other people but never has said anything to me about it being a relationship, and well i would like to be. But i so confused!!! Are we or are we not in a relationship? i no i just warbeling on now but i so confused i mean does he have to officially say something for us to be in a relationship?

Reply 1

yes, if you feel he's your boyfriend and obviously he's calling you his girlfriend then he's made it pretty clear he thinks you're in a relationship. There doesn't have to be a specific conversation or turning point which makes it official.... sometimes it can just gradually move into one. But it depends whether you actually feel like you are in one (him callin u his girlfriend is a good indication!) and of course whether you actually want it to have developed into one.

Reply 2

Try and find out, but be subtle about it. Blurting out "Are we dating?" is probably going to make him rather uncomfortable. Use your imagination.

Reply 3

Just say can we make it official. EASY EASY

Reply 4

supernova2
Just say can we make it official. EASY EASY

:ditto:

Reply 5

yer but if hes already thought of it as official for a while then it would sound silly and might upset/confuse him a little

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