The Big Date

Hey guys

So i went on a date last night (a 1st date) with a guy ive known for a few weeks now.
Hes 24 im 18, and im a Virgin .. hes not ,, actually hes kinda a sex addict lol. So i told him, if anything was to happen between us , sex wouldnt be anywhere in the near future,and he was really fine with that.
So we got down to kissing, n it got heated n he started running his hands over my ass, legs n boobs.
Have i given him the wrong impresion by letting him do this?

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

2nd base isnt a home run

Reply 2

Anthonyjm71

dreamqueen

If that is what you wanted then no you haven't given him the wrong impression but by saying you 'let' him do it it sounds very passive. Just be sure of what you want

I agree very true!!

Reply 3

*titanium*

The big date? i thought you where talking about the 9th july! :tongue:

Oh and as for the question, all you probably did was give him the idea that you would not resist, ie if you seem interested in him, and by saying you dont want sex with him yet, you are telling him your thinking about sex with him in the future. You didnt give him the wrong impression thou, he just wanted to do it so he did it.

Reply 4

*~vicki~*

I agree with most of the above. You have made it clear that you dont want sex, and there is nothing wrong with what you did, as long as you actually wanted it, and didnt do it just to make him happy. :smile:

Reply 5

zav

erm if you felt comfortable with it and enjoyed it do it again. If not next time just ask if you can take it slow and give him a little kiss and a smile.