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Pay for sex to get rid of horniness?

i know this might sound superficial and macho to some people... but sometimes one MUST have sex, and it's impossible to teach one's body to refrain from it.

i'm too horny and i KNOW it distracts me a lot from studies n other important things. maybe i have a very low willpower...

when i was a teenager i had sex with my gf, bt now (20 yrs) i'm
- always in a hurry, i work and study at the same time
- with all the things i have to do, it would be impossible for me to have a serious and dedicating relationship

PLUS i find it immoral to seduce girls just to have sex with them n then forget them.

that's why i thought: isn't it more correct to relieve one's exploding horniness with a "professional", i.e. a prostitute/escort?
correct in the sense that i do no harm to anyone, remain on moral grounds and have no obligations...

what's ur opinion (PS, where i live prostitution is legal)?

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Reply 1
i think that prostituition is disgusting - make time for a serious relationship,
Reply 2
That means your going to have to work more to pay prostitutes, even though you said you have no free time. You are contradicting yourself by saying it is taking the pais out of women but are willing to use sluts. Also the risk of STD's and pregnancy. **** like other men! There needs to be more nice guys in the world.
Reply 3
Hang on, its imoral for you to drop a girl after sleeping with them on the first night!?!? and its not paying for whore?
Reply 4
You'd pay? That is bizzare...

You wouldn't want to have sex with a normal girl, who might enjoy it and just be in it for a casual thing too.

But you would PAY to have sex with a drugie, who has been exposed to god knows what, and must have had a ****ed up childhood and life to be in that buisiness anyway, and just confirm to her more how awful men are!?

I'd go to the pub and pull if I were you. Morals pppfft!
Reply 5
Make time for a relationship or use your hands. Your choice, but buying sex is pointless and is going to put off anyone you meet down the line.
Reply 6
walshie
Hang on, its imoral for you to drop a girl after sleeping with them on the first night!?!? and its not paying for whore?


It's not particularly socially accepted but I wouldn't say it was particularly immoral. Less immoral than a one night stand at least.
makes me glad im a woman.
how much do prostitues charge ?
Reply 9
Depends where ya go....
Reply 10
Why shouldn't he be allowed to pay for sex? In my view, if you're THAT horny, then go ahead. Just know the risks.
Anonymous
that's why i thought: isn't it more correct to relieve one's exploding horniness with a "professional", i.e. a prostitute/escort?
correct in the sense that i do no harm to anyone, remain on moral grounds and have no obligations...
You "thought" - so it's past tense? So I won't need to tell you to un-think it then.

Don't think it; there's a good boy.
Reply 12
Glory
Your choice, but buying sex is pointless


What's pointless about it? The original poster is sexually frustrated. In exchange for money, he can be relieved of his sexual frustration. Thus relieved, he is happy. Tell me if I've missed something, here.
Reply 13
I'm sorry, but I'm actually speechless.
Reply 14
Thats what masturbation is for.

The milkman starts to get confused when several hands are shaking his. There is nothing like a good firm shake when the milkman knocks on the door.
Reply 15
5150
What's pointless about it? The original poster is sexually frustrated. In exchange for money, he can be relieved of his sexual frustration. Thus relieved, he is happy. Tell me if I've missed something, here.


as sad by other people, he will pay for it.. Then he will want it more often to the extent that he has to work even longer, which eventually means he has no prospects of meeting a real girl.

Its a vicious cycle, and will eventually be pointless.
Reply 16
firstly - maybe this explains some things - i'm not from uk...

i know there is a lot of exploitation in the sex business, but here prostitution is a legal profession, and who works in this branch usually is not forced to do so. there are also regular STD checks...

as for morals...
where i live the responsibility of a one-hour-stand is always of the male partner. there are many repercussions and negative effects on a man who decides to "seduce" a woman here... more than on someone who pays for sex.

as i said, i only want to get rid of my horniness/corporal needs in order to focus more on my spiritual/intellectual passions.
maybe once or twice will be enough...
Reply 17
If its legal then go ahead, but like other people have said makesure you are well aware of the risks involved. For example, be very careful about protection, you don't know who these prostitutes have been sleeping with before you. In my opinion you would be better of getting a girlfriend or going out and having a few one night stands now and then. Forget about morals, nobody else seems to care these days.
Reply 18
If you spend all your time working you're going to lead a very, very boring life. You need to set aside some lesiure time for yourself, and perhaps persue a relationship. Surely a steady girlfriend would be preferable to a hooker?
Reply 19
Glory
as sad by other people, he will pay for it.. Then he will want it more often to the extent that he has to work even longer, which eventually means he has no prospects of meeting a real girl.


What position are you in to say that sleeping with a prosititute will make him want it more? Get this - you don't KNOW the original poster, you know NOTHING about his sexual urges, and you're in no position to say that he'll lose all prospects of meeting a real girl.