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anxiety situation, should I risk it?

Ok I posted before ages ago but I quit uni cause I kept getting anxious and was scared of fainting and ever since have not really done anything apart from 1 day a week voluntary work, im 19 now and want to get back into studying as I really really want a career but in reality I can't see myself with one. Its the thought of the anxiety happening all over again when Im sitting in a classroom, and then the 45 minute bus journey home, its nothing to do with college or people its if I have a panic attack or faint I will be 45 minutes away from home. It actually sound worse than it is now Ive read its not as severe as it sounds. It started when I was about 17 and im worried im going to have to live with it all my life now. I can't get in touch with a counceller Ive been on the waiting list for 7 months and can't get in contact. Has anyone any advice on coping with this? The course I want to do is going to cost loads should I go on it and risk losing money or what? I can't take a gap year Ive already had 2 lol.
Reply 1
So basically you have a phobia of fainting?

Its not a waste of money. Some cognitive therapy would probably see you through it
Reply 2
Markus Angelsdaughter
So basically you have a phobia of fainting?

Its not a waste of money. Some cognitive therapy would probably see you through it


Yea I think its that, Ive fainted 5 times in the past yet have no health problems (one time was at college and another in the street near college I had bad stomach pains both times, got scared and passed out). I sound like a right wimp, I was thinking of joining the TA too:redface:
Reply 3
Anonymous
Yea I think its that, Ive fainted 5 times in the past yet have no health problems (one time was at college and another in the street near college I had bad stomach pains both times, got scared and passed out). I sound like a right wimp, I was thinking of joining the TA too:redface:


You're not a wimp, a phobia is a phobia. Your phobia of fainting probably stemed from your past experiences of being sick then fainting then waking up in an unfamiliar place. Im not sure whether you can get cognitive therapy for free on the NHS or not ;/
Reply 4
I have a friend who has this problem, and has been on incapacity benefit for, what, three years now. He too doesn't want to be too far away from home in case he has a panic attack as has happened in the past.

The government do give some counselling sessions but they are limited, as you state, but this is a something that you need to do in order to know yourself better and recognise the danger signs, and how to cope with them, and how to cope with everyday life.

Most people go through some kind of anxiety at some time, but in some of us what we are thinking in the head is acted on very severely by the body - when a would-be burglar appeared at my window the other day I almost fainted thanks to the adrenalin surge. My point is that you need help to recognise the reasoning your mind and body are going through, it is often faulty, and that's where the problem lies.

It is very hard for people without specialist knowledge to help, but the thing is not to try too hard. My friend was and is always the best at guitar, darts, skateboarding because he pushed himself. With the danger of panic attacks you have to go very slowly, and build up a routine I guess.

Oh, and avoid drugs too.

The best advice is to get professional help as soon as possible.
Reply 5
he he chucked a knife at me the *****er. Glad to move out of halls this year!

To the OP, should you risk starting education again? Possibly.

Should you risk paying out for a counseller? Definitely.
Try various channels, see which helps - your situation sounds bad, and maybe cognitive therapy can only take you so far....

At present, a drug propranolol helps with anxiety, panic attack problems.

However, i read an article in the newspaper, 'The Independent' yesterday, and there is a new medicine coming out replacing propranolol...

Someone said, avoid drugs....but sometimes they can help enormously, but obviously the ideal would be to eventually ease oneself off using them...
Anonymous
Ok I posted before ages ago but I quit uni cause I kept getting anxious and was scared of fainting and ever since have not really done anything apart from 1 day a week voluntary work, im 19 now and want to get back into studying as I really really want a career but in reality I can't see myself with one. Its the thought of the anxiety happening all over again when Im sitting in a classroom, and then the 45 minute bus journey home, its nothing to do with college or people its if I have a panic attack or faint I will be 45 minutes away from home. It actually sound worse than it is now Ive read its not as severe as it sounds. It started when I was about 17 and im worried im going to have to live with it all my life now. I can't get in touch with a counceller Ive been on the waiting list for 7 months and can't get in contact. Has anyone any advice on coping with this? The course I want to do is going to cost loads should I go on it and risk losing money or what? I can't take a gap year Ive already had 2 lol.


When i was 14 my friend got killed and i found it hard to cope i started getting really bad panic attacks, i would hardly even go out of the house. I know how hard it must be for you because not alot of people understand... because it is in the mind people don't see the physical side of it and how much it affects someone.

When my mum and dad split up at 16 they became alot worse.. i dropped out of school and everything. I managed to get to see a councillor quite quickly because i was quite bad and this did really help me.. i just needed someone who didnt know me to talk to about everything. The one thing i will say is try not to stop doing things as this makes it worse. i know it will be hard but it's the best thing you can do. I haven't had one (touch wood) for over a year and i am in full time work etc. I am not frightend of having them anymore... and i don't care if i do get one.. i don't panic so they go away quicker. I hope you sort it out.. it makes me sad because i no how awful they can be. PM me if you want to talk xx
Reply 8
I meant illegal drugs :p:

Though they out my friend on on dia... something, said to him "you'll feel really bad for a week",then get better! The side effects were just too much, though, and he stopped.

Avoid drugs I say, at least until other options are exhausted.
white_haired_wizard
Try various channels, see which helps - your situation sounds bad, and maybe cognitive therapy can only take you so far....

At present, a drug propranolol helps with anxiety, panic attack problems.

However, i read an article in the newspaper, 'The Independent' yesterday, and there is a new medicine coming out replacing propranolol...

Someone said, avoid drugs....but sometimes they can help enormously, but obviously the ideal would be to eventually ease oneself off using them...


Just from my own personal oppinion i wouldn't use drugs to get rid of them... i would do it with councelling. Using drugs for panic attacks is very risky as you might become too scared to come off them as you might think they are the only things that stop the attacks. I did it without drugs, so you will be able to too.
Reply 10
Nevers
I have a friend who has this problem, and has been on incapacity benefit for, what, three years now. He too doesn't want to be too far away from home in case he has a panic attack as has happened in the past.

The government do give some counselling sessions but they are limited, as you state, but this is a something that you need to do in order to know yourself better and recognise the danger signs, and how to cope with them, and how to cope with everyday life.

Most people go through some kind of anxiety at some time, but in some of us what we are thinking in the head is acted on very severely by the body - when a would-be burglar appeared at my window the other day I almost fainted thanks to the adrenalin surge. My point is that you need help to recognise the reasoning your mind and body are going through, it is often faulty, and that's where the problem lies.

It is very hard for people without specialist knowledge to help, but the thing is not to try too hard. My friend was and is always the best at guitar, darts, skateboarding because he pushed himself. With the danger of panic attacks you have to go very slowly, and build up a routine I guess.

Oh, and avoid drugs too.

The best advice is to get professional help as soon as possible.


OK, cheers. With the councelling though I don't see how being spoken to can help, my aunt works in mental health and gave me some advice and that day I felt so relieved but then it came back again. Now she is slagging me off for not working as her son is the same (but without the anxiety). Its strange because I can go shopping in a different town on my own and go jogging to another town yet I can't face commitment. I suppose sitting in a classroom is harder as there are not many things to be distracted by and its hard to just go home when you feel like it. Plus I have fainted in a classroom before so there is that problem.
I hope your friend gets sorted out, he sounds talented lol, the incapicity benifit I am trying to avoid as I don't want to get into the habit of being lazy and sponging (not that your friend is) Id be ashamed to tell people if you know what I mean. My mum keeps saying I need to sort my life out and the longer I leave it the hrder it will get, don't know how true that is:confused:
Anonymous
Just from my own personal oppinion i wouldn't use drugs to get rid of them... i would do it with councelling. Using drugs for panic attacks is very risky as you might become too scared to come off them as you might think they are the only things that stop the attacks. I did it without drugs, so you will be able to too.


I've used them personally, and i've had pretty big problems with anxiety and panic attacks....but i eased off them, from a point when i needed the drugs most, and i'm ok at the moment, never will be comfortable but there are techniques which help, i.e. breathing exercises, visualization et cetera....

It's a bit foolish to be so absolutist in rejecting taking drugs in such circumstances....
white_haired_wizard
I've used them personally, and i've had pretty big problems with anxiety and panic attacks....but i eased off them, from a point when i needed the drugs most, and i'm ok at the moment, never will be comfortable but there are techniques which help, i.e. breathing exercises, visualization et cetera....

It's a bit foolish to be so absolutist in rejecting taking drugs in such circumstances....



I don't think i was foolish not to take drugs or not even consider them because i am well over my panic attacks and i am comfortable in all situations now so i know it was the best choice for me.
Try Bach remedy aswell. You can get that from boots for about £3. It's for anxiety. I keep that with me all the time just incase. It's a herbal remedy.