Said he would contact me but didn't

Hiya I'm 20, and this guy is 21. This guy I liked and he liked me used to flirt for months then we kinda got together for a little bit just messing about, then we stopped cos he just wanted to be friends. For about 3 months we hardly saw each other, only if it was about clubbing anywhere but we never danced just spoke for like 5 mins. he never contacted me. Then out of the blue last week he text me being all friendly, inviting me to his house but it didnt end up happening. He said he would contact me soon but it's been a week. I dont wanna contact him because Ive done too much running before (i used to call him quite a lot). But Im confused. :frown:

Reply 1

Glory

1

he probabily wants a shag buddy or a casual relationship but keeps getting cold feet.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

i never shagged him though, we never got that far

Reply 3

Glory

1

well maybe thats his agenda. Who knows, just some suggestions.

Reply 4

BlackHawk

17

He's not interested. Sorry, but if he was he'd be more in contact.

Reply 5

Chi3f

1

well surely its nicer than telling to your face he doesnt want to see you again?

Reply 6

britgal'04

im not sure why he hasnt contacted you again, sounds wierd

Reply 7

Eternity Forever

12

o well, life goes on. Surely there must be plenty more fish in the sea!

Reply 8

PhilMc

16

BlackHawk

He's not interested. Sorry, but if he was he'd be more in contact.

Absolutely spot on.

Reply 9

BlackHawk

17

Simplex-Designs

Absolutely spot on.

Lots of male friends means I have an uncanny knack for it. That and they all bitch to me about their women. :wink:

Reply 10

kerberos

If a guy is really interested, he won't take the chance of playing cat and mouse. This guy is playing with you, once he's got what he wants he will bounce.

Reply 11

username47781

20

He's just messing you around, he only wants 1 thing and that is to get in your underwear and if you let him once he's done that he will disappear, he only wants 1 thing with you im afraid, find someone who appreciates you for what you are and not someone who wants to just use you.

Reply 12

britgal'04

this guy is clearly not into you. get a life. you're 20.

Reply 13

Wonderboy Blue

1

He only needs you when you're gone
You're better off alone

Reply 14

PlayboyBunny

Get a life? That's my line!

good for you mraz

OP

OP

britgal that was really nasty. i do have a life, i cant help that i like this guy. he still hasnt contacted me, been over a week, given up hope now. tempted to ring him but then it would be me chasing again. its just horrible how it was him doing all the chasing in the beginning, then just because he didnt have time for a relationship he cuts himself off from me, then messes my head by ringing me the other week and asking me round his and to meet up sometime. :frown:

i feel ****

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

OP

britgal that was really nasty, yeah i know im 20, i do have a life, i cant help that i like this guy. he still hasnt contacted me, been over a week, given up hope now. tempted to ring him but then it would be me chasing again. its just horrible how it was him doing all the chasing in the beginning, then when i wanted to get onto something more serious he cuts himself off from me completely for months and doesnt wanna know me, then messes my head by ringing me the other week for the first time in months i feel ****

Reply 19

Anonymous #1

OP

omg sorry about the double posting, i thought it didnt show up so i wrote it all out again...

Said he would contact me but didn't

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