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Met up with a friend of mine who I hadn't seen since we finished 6th form over couple of years ago now. she's had feelings for me when we were in 6th form but we never got together properly for what ever reason.

So a week ago we met up and went out for the day, their was some flirting, but id say more from her. she started pretty much as soon as she saw me. She kept mentioning about her boyfriend a lot, I didn't even now she had one, not that it mattered. She also seemed like she was trying to cause an argument between us, saying I was being miserable even though I wasn't, but I didn't say anything despite my suspicions.

However, she admitted that she was trying to get us to argue for most the day, saying that that's what her and her boyfriend do. She said that it helped to get things out in the open about how they were feeling. She seemed mention about her boyfriend a lot despite her openly flirting with me.

She then started saying about how a mate would say that id said things about her. It took a bit of coaxing for her to even go into anymore detail. All she said after that was he'd say I was bad mouthing her behind her back . She even went as far as saying that he was the reason we never got together. This isn't true its her constantly changing her mind about things such as her future career, that stopped me from asking her out. I've never told her that, and very nearly did last week.

She was also obsessed with hooking my mate up with a female friend of hers. She even said that my mate fancied me, and that was the reason he said what he said. I'm ok with that as I'm not gay and it doesn't bother me in the slightest if he is, or if he likes me.


So I'm completely confused, and I cant help but think about it all. Their seems to be some mixed messages from her.

thanks for any advice.
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Met up with a friend of mine who I hadn't seen since we finished 6th form over couple of years ago now. she's had feelings for me when we were in 6th form but we never got together properly for what ever reason.

So a week ago we met up and went out for the day, their was some flirting, but id say more from her. she started pretty much as soon as she saw me. She kept mentioning about her boyfriend a lot, I didn't even now she had one, not that it mattered. She also seemed like she was trying to cause an argument between us, saying I was being miserable even though I wasn't, but I didn't say anything despite my suspicions.

However, she admitted that she was trying to get us to argue for most the day, saying that that's what her and her boyfriend do. She said that it helped to get things out in the open about how they were feeling. She seemed mention about her boyfriend a lot despite her openly flirting with me.

She then started saying about how a mate would say that id said things about her. It took a bit of coaxing for her to even go into anymore detail. All she said after that was he'd say I was bad mouthing her behind her back . She even went as far as saying that he was the reason we never got together. This isn't true its her constantly changing her mind about things such as her future career, that stopped me from asking her out. I've never told her that, and very nearly did last week.

She was also obsessed with hooking my mate up with a female friend of hers. She even said that my mate fancied me, and that was the reason he said what he said. I'm ok with that as I'm not gay and it doesn't bother me in the slightest if he is, or if he likes me.


So I'm completely confused, and I cant help but think about it all. Their seems to be some mixed messages from her.

thanks for any advice.
Well, that's girls for you.

She probably doesn't have a boyfriend and she only likes you but has I different way of showing you. If she obsessed about hooking her mate up with yours then she probably trying to say that she want to be with you or she wants you to ask her out. She tries to bring up the subject of getting people together then shes trying to bring up you and her but shes substituting her friend and yours with you and her.

Generally I think she likes you and if you do to then ask her out
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such as her future career,
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what I mean is, it did my head in with how one week she wanted to do one thing, and something else the next. It could be she wants me one week and someone else the next. That's what puts me off her.
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