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how to get the sexual spark back into a relationship!
hello..
ive been going out with my boyfriend for sometime now, but the sex is slowly decreasing, maybe due to lack of opportunities, but how can i really make him want me so that it doesnt matter when or where we do it? he used to be really sexually minded, but now its just died down, and i dont know how to get it back?
Any advice? Thanks.
ive been going out with my boyfriend for sometime now, but the sex is slowly decreasing, maybe due to lack of opportunities, but how can i really make him want me so that it doesnt matter when or where we do it? he used to be really sexually minded, but now its just died down, and i dont know how to get it back?
Any advice? Thanks.
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he probably does want you; why dont you take the initiative and show him YOU want HIM
surprise him; initiate sex at random moments and in random (legal) places. Make changes and introduce new aspects to your sex life......
most important though, (sounds like preaching but do bear with....) is the ever present communication thing....if he really has gone off sex there has to be a reason....and its not healthy for him to keep it to himself and withdraw, or for you to tie yourself in knots wondering whats going on. If you're comfortable enough to have sex with the guy, and comfortable enough to talk about your sex life on an internet forum then get talking to him! It could be that he's stressing and wondering about the same thing you are, or it could be that there's a simple enough explanation that just hasnt occured to you.
good luck
surprise him; initiate sex at random moments and in random (legal) places. Make changes and introduce new aspects to your sex life......
most important though, (sounds like preaching but do bear with....) is the ever present communication thing....if he really has gone off sex there has to be a reason....and its not healthy for him to keep it to himself and withdraw, or for you to tie yourself in knots wondering whats going on. If you're comfortable enough to have sex with the guy, and comfortable enough to talk about your sex life on an internet forum then get talking to him! It could be that he's stressing and wondering about the same thing you are, or it could be that there's a simple enough explanation that just hasnt occured to you.
good luck
yeah, i do try to initiate it, well i do. lol. but sometimes i want it from him, i love them moments when he'll just grab me and kiss me, and it just feels so alive - but the footies on so much, i dont even get a look in! lol
well in that case ive said it before and i'll say it again: wrap yourself in an england flag (and nothing else obviously) and show him exactly what else he could be doing.
looooooool, thanks!! 
i have the same problem too, typical men!
i have the same problem too, typical men!go shopping together and buy lingerie for yourself (i guarantee ur bf will like that) or order a sex catalogue and browse together you're old enough now to do adult things now
don't do it for a few weeks at all.. and tell him not to touch himself either. trust me, it works.... after you let a bit of time go by, the sex will be amazing. maybe it has just become routine for you to have sex and you use the same positions and stuff.. maybe if you don't want to not do it for a while, try some new positions or go and do it in public.. like a park.. or.. car or something.
good luck.
good luck.
Anonymous
hello..
ive been going out with my boyfriend for sometime now, but the sex is slowly decreasing, maybe due to lack of opportunities, but how can i really make him want me so that it doesnt matter when or where we do it? he used to be really sexually minded, but now its just died down, and i dont know how to get it back?
Any advice? Thanks.
ive been going out with my boyfriend for sometime now, but the sex is slowly decreasing, maybe due to lack of opportunities, but how can i really make him want me so that it doesnt matter when or where we do it? he used to be really sexually minded, but now its just died down, and i dont know how to get it back?
Any advice? Thanks.
Just wear tight tops and short skirts. It will arouse him somewhat - especially if you have a decent figure.
wear low-rise trousers and a thong, that'll get him going!
Dress up like a nurse and ask if you can take his temperature...
Anonymous
Dress up like a nurse and ask if you can take his temperature...
that's fab! lol!
pumpkin7
don't do it for a few weeks at all.. and tell him not to touch himself either. trust me, it works.... after you let a bit of time go by, the sex will be amazing. maybe it has just become routine for you to have sex and you use the same positions and stuff.. maybe if you don't want to not do it for a while, try some new positions or go and do it in public.. like a park.. or.. car or something.
good luck.
good luck.
illegal......
have you tried saucy pictures? ALWAYS works
me and the gf did it in the car once, that put a big spark back into our lovelife.... - had gotten a bit cold 
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