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So I recently joined this dance society and almost instantly started seeing the dance teacher, he's 25 and I'm 18 (not the first time I've had a thing with older guy so it wasn't an issue).

We were about to begin on a casual relationship, had sex thrice. But the last time I thought it would be wise to tell him I thought I felt more strongly towards him than he did me. He said we should go on a break so I could think things over on if I could handle a casual relationship ( this is my first time trying something like this), so we did.
I've seen him twice since that last time at dance as normal and I've even asked him out twice not giving a damn about my pride, and he's just completely disinterested.

I guess my dilemma is should I keep trying with this or should I just leave it ? I really like this guy it's actually frustrating.
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Hmm, it's a tricky situation and can see why it would be upsetting. It's unfair that he seems not interested anymore without telling you the reason why. I think you should talk to him so then he knows how you feel. If he is decent enough, he should be able to listen and be honest with you about what he wants e.g. maybe wants a bit more of a break or he's unsure himself. I would talk to him and get to the bottom of it. No point keeping things like that on your mind.
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hmm i would be careful because maybe not saying for definite but maybe he was attracted to your young and was in some ways using that to his advantage. but if you do like him it isn't fair if he isn't straight with you and tells you why he is being like this.
plus i would be careful, because of the age difference to not to seem or come over too immature because guys are immature enough on their own lol so try and be the bigger one and go up to him and say we need to talk. confront him but in a way that he has no choice but to answer. if that makes sense.
i hope it goes well whatever you choose to do. x
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By the sounds of things, he is rethinking the casual relationship but doesn't know how to tell you.
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