I don't want rough sex like in porn, I want to make love like in the movies Watch

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Ok, well straight up its probably my own fault that the only sex i've experienced is rough (as in hard and fast) sex as the only sex i've ever had is the drunken one-night-stand kind...but both guys i've been with were actually quite rough, despite me telling the first guy i was with that I was a virgin and asking him to go slow with me.
It's never actually hurt, but sometimes it can feel a little overbearing. The first guy I was with was quite big (about 7 inches) but it didn't last particularly long (20 mins tops) but the 2nd guy i slept with was even bigger (about 9) and we did it several times (and overall it lasted a few hours). After we'd finished, i went to the bathroom and i was bleeding a little bit despite the fact that i didn't bleed when i lost my virginity, and in the next few days that followed i had soreness and abdominal pains.

I know i shouldn't be having one night stands if i'm looking for intimate sex but i'm wondering, do all guys insist on completely pounding the girls they're with? If they went slower, would it not feel good for them? It just reminds me too much of porn :/ and i really hate porn, it doesn't turn me on at all...but watching passionate love scenes from films gives me this delicious feeling in my stomach....i wish sex could be like that!
To girls in relationships, is your guy gentle with you in the bedroom?
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Only been with one guy and he was incredibly gentle and nice. We just broke up, maybe you should date him lol.
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Were you measuring lol? How you got dem measures?

and yeah thats wierd, if you dont like the rough secs why do you watch rough porn then? wierd one

oh yh n when making loves just do it any pace i want not know fast or slow or whatever just bangin
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If you don't like rough sex, why do you let them carry on? I'm in a long term relationship and I love it rough, but that doesn't mean we don't have gentle, intimate sexytimes too. If you don't like it, don't do it.
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Somehow I think you were overestimating their penis size...

To answer the question, sometimes. Depends what mood we're in and what we want to do.
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Please keep the posts sensible, any unhelpful posts will get removed.
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sometimes. depends on our mood

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Please keep the posts sensible, any unhelpful posts will get removed.
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A legit 9 inch penis is pretty damn huge... Somehow I'm with Desdemonata on this one.
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A legit 9 inch penis is pretty damn huge... Somehow I'm with Desdemonata on this one.
what do you mean somehow its kinda obvious how
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From experience they do like it rough, but I've experienced the whole gentle side and he seemed to enjoy that just as much. I think it depends on the guy, and it would feel better and intimate in a relationship - from my experience anyway
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Slower, gentler sex is normally for relationships. If you're just having one night stands, then it means they just want pure sex, so yes they're going to want it a bit rougher, because they aren't emotional for you so don't get pleasure from that.

I agree that more gentle sex is way better, but most of my sex has been one night stands. I've done it rough plenty of times, but frankly it's not incredible. You need a relationship
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Somehow I think you were overestimating their penis size...

To answer the question, sometimes. Depends what mood we're in and what we want to do.
I know it sounds big, but it genuinely was huge...i swear he couldn't fit it all in....he was one of the tallest guys i've ever met though
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I know it sounds big, but it genuinely was huge...i swear he couldn't fit it all in....he was one of the tallest guys i've ever met though
Height bears no relation to penis size.

What I find unlikely is that both guys you have been with are over-average. That's highly unlikely. You're likely to be over-estimating it, particularly if you just measured with your eyes. I know of girls who claimed their guy was 11 inches... yeah, no.
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Height bears no relation to penis size.

What I find unlikely is that both guys you have been with are over-average. That's highly unlikely. You're likely to be over-estimating it, particularly if you just measured with your eyes. I know of girls who claimed their guy was 11 inches... yeah, no.
Do you have any solid scientific reference for that?

I've never looked into it but loads of people say this and tbh it sounds like a completely stupid thing to say.

Every other body part size is correlated positively with height (head size, leg length, arm length, torso length, hand size) etc etc so why wouldn't penis size be positively correlated with height?

I don't believe for a second that the average penis size of 5'5 men is the same as that of 6'0 men is the same as that of 6'5 men...
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(Original post by In One Ear)
A legit 9 inch penis is pretty damn huge... Somehow I'm with Desdemonata on this one.
Yeah, people do over estimate, because they think anything less than 7 is small, and it isn't. It was more likely that the 7 was 5inch and the 9 was 7inch. because that's still large haha
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No of course not - all men are different just like all women are different. that context. By the nature of ONSs you're there purely for sex so it's quite acceptable for you to ask them to slow down. Casual sex is different from what happens in a relationship and it sounds like the next experience you have ought to be in the context of a romantic relationship.

As a general point, the way sex is depicted in Hollywood movies is as fictitious as how it is depicted in porn. However, find yourself in a committed relationship with someone like-minded and there's nothing stopping you both working towards whichever end of the spectrum appeals.
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Do you have any solid scientific reference for that?

I've never looked into it but loads of people say this and tbh it sounds like a completely stupid thing to say.

Every other body part size is correlated positively with height (head size, leg length, arm length, torso length, hand size) etc etc so why wouldn't penis size be positively correlated with height?

I don't believe for a second that the average penis size of 5'5 men is the same as that of 6'0 men is the same as that of 6'5 men...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_p...her_body_parts

The penis no longer has a bone in it (and hasn't for some time ), so I don't see why it would correlate to the skeleton.
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(Original post by desdemonata)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_p...her_body_parts

The penis no longer has a bone in it (and hasn't for some time ), so I don't see why it would correlate to the skeleton.
mine has a little bone, just like some next stub
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Please keep the posts sensible, any unhelpful posts will get removed.
You even have to try to kill a sex thread.

Anyway to the OP, attempting to recreate a movie sex scene is like trying to recreate a rough porn sex scene. It is probably going to fail because they are nothing like sex.
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