I've been having problems with my boyfriend of a year lately. I have recently started uni and since then our relationship has become boring, the conversation doesn't flow like it used to and when It does it is about boring subjects like his career issues. We don't have general, normal chats anymore.
He moved to the city where I am attending uni and started a job which he hated! We saw each other about once a week at the start of uni but now he has quit and started a new job I am still not seeing him as deadlines are looming.
There's no excitement in our relationship anymore, its the same all of the time,. I have also become very independent lately. We haven't had sex in about 3 weeks cos the mood hasn't been right or I just don't want to anymore with him! I think I prefer just having nights in with my new friends.
The thing is it doesn't seem like he realises it! I have tried to talk about it but he was drunk and remembered nothing in the morning! But when he was drunk he was saying things like "I love you so much I cant lose you!"
I feel so bad for how I'm feeling I just don't know how to get the spark back! Or if its already over. I don't know what to do! I love him but things aren't right.
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