The Student Room Group

does he still feel for me???

okay heres my problem, i have a bf but im not sure if he loves me
i had a crush on him and when my friends found out they went around asking him if he liked me or not eveyday, he said yes we both have been in a relationship for 5 months however this month (going to be out 6th) his personaloty has started to change, one girl even told me off saying my bf said if she does not shut up he will make her pregnant, i told him many times not to say it but he still does, we normally meet up after school and hang but he has forgotten 2 times to come, however when i talk to boys i think he feel jelious, do you think he still loves me??
well i dono to be honist, if you love him then talk to him again however some people might diagree
Reply 2
i could do that again and again and then he would do it all over again, but i love him however i dono what to do, please help
Reply 3
maybe he has personal problems? the only way u could find out is to ask him, really
Reply 4
i would but he does not listen, he starts laughing in my face like its no bigi
Reply 5
you never know until you try!
i don't think he changed for no reason, maybe ask his friends what's up with him?
Anonymous
i would but he does not listen, he starts laughing in my face like its no bigi

Then he's clearly an insensitive arse. You're still going to school and have been going out for less than 6 months - don't expect this guy to be nice and mature and sensible at all.

Ask him. Make the situation clear to him and don't be emotional and malleable. If he fails to accept that he's hurting you, forget it - he's not worth it. Find someone more mature.
Anonymous
okay heres my problem, i have a bf but im not sure if he loves me
i had a crush on him and when my friends found out they went around asking him if he liked me or not eveyday, he said yes we both have been in a relationship for 5 months however this month (going to be out 6th) his personaloty has started to change, one girl even told me off saying my bf said if she does not shut up he will make her pregnant, i told him many times not to say it but he still does, we normally meet up after school and hang but he has forgotten 2 times to come, however when i talk to boys i think he feel jelious, do you think he still loves me??

Familiarity breeds contempt. It's like living with your parents in a way. It can be great if you all get on, but after a while if you don't get on with them you end up resenting them and mistreating them, as they do to you, simply because you're constantly there. No one's shy or extra polite because you all know each other too well, so maybe he realises how much he dislikes you and is taking it out on you (even if it's his fault for being immature and not yours). His personality probably hasn't changed, maybe it was always crap, maybe he just doesn't care about showing that now he's free of his inhibitions because he's not shy around you and he knows you well.

Don't forget that if you're in it for love and he's in it for friendship, sex, the social status, or anything other than love, no matter how good his intentions are, it won't work.