I recently split up with my ex. (It was me that finished it). About 5 weeks ago. Over the last couple of weeks, we'd been seeing eachother about 5 times a week and were getting really close. We both knew we'd been "messing around" with other people at the same time though. I thought that things were miles better than they'd ever been and really thought that our relationship was on the road to recovery. I still thought about him non-stop. Then on Friday, I had one of those feelings. I talked to him on MSN and he told me there was someone else. I was gutted. Since then, I've not been able to stop thinking about him. I know it's my fault for finishing him in the first place, but our behaviour for the last couple of weeks had prompted me to believe there was a chance we were going to get back together. He even said himself that he knew he'd end up back with me.
Since I found out, I've just been numb really. I had a dream about it last night and woke up thinking it was all a dream. That's what it feels like. I want him back so bad. Only last week he was saying he loved me and he knew that I loved him. Should I keep fighting for him??
You should fight for him before he falls for another girl or give it all away and see if he does really love you .. if he does.. he will come back to you .. if not tough luck
2 options .. depends what you want and who you are /// how determined are you >>??
Well he's said there's someone else, but tbh, I can't tell how serious it is because we've always been honest and said that we've been with other people. (whilst we've been apart). I so want to fight for him, but I don't want to appear like the obsessive ex.
Also, we were sleeping together 5 times a week up til now. Was he just using me??