i know its wrong

last week i was at a club with some of my friends. while we were there we met some people some of my friends knew through school. one of them was a girl at my college's boyfriend - not a girl that I know well, but i know of her. They have been having relationship troubles, with her going on holiday with her friends and not telling him until she had gone, and both of them wanting to finish it. and We ended up kissing all night and swapping phone numbers. he has been texting me since and wants to meet up with me. i know him and his girlfriend are going to split, and i really like him, but i feel bad if i meet up with him and feel bad for kissing him in the first place. he says it was the first time that he had ever kissed another girl, and he has been with his girlfriend nearly a year. i really want to meet up with him, but my friends will be annoyed with me. i know people are just going to say its wrong and im answering my own question, but has anyone else ever been in this situation? :confused:

Reply 1

Knight-of-Ni

I havn't been in this situation personnally, but i know what i'd do if i was in your shoes... if you really like him, meet up with him, but it seems like you don't know him very well, so i'd stave off the extreme realtionship businees until you're sure you want to be with him... and that hes telling the truth he'd never 'cheated' before! And if you're friends with this girl... talk to her first, though after he's dumped her! Otherwise the girls in your school will turn on you... and that wouldn't be good! :biggrin:

hope it all works out! xxx

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

I'm not friends with his girlfriend, but my friend is and she was telling me about all there problems before i even met him. i do really like him, but its just becasue he is with her. i wont see her again as we have left college now, exams are over. grrrrr. i wish he was single! i dont think he has ever cheated before because his friends seem,ed quite shocked - but then i dunno

Reply 3

Joce

Ive been in this situation in that i got with a guy in a dead end relationship and i decided to keep on seeing him before he ended up breaking up with her. The problem was that he was lovely for a while but decided that after being in a long term relationship, he prefered the no strings attached life of being single. The problem with getting with guys who have cheated is that they could do the same thing to you if you start going out with him. I went through loads of s**t with this person and personally was not worth it. All people are different though. Find out a little bit about this guy and find out whats hes like. it might help you make a decision on whether he is worth it or not.

Reply 4

supernova2

wait until they split, make a move on him a few weeks later.

Reply 5

Emmalina

Yeh I have. We talked things through, and he was prepared to make the effort for me, and just split up with her totally that evening.

Its all working out great - even now she's come to London (LDR) we;re all just dandy..