I need help, this is the toughest time in my life.

I'm from far east. My whole family moved to England 1 year ago. We are now living under the same roof as my aunt's family (lets call them the C family). But the house is not belong to either of our family . it's belong to my other uncle ( lets call him uncle B) who is currently living in his wife's house. uncle B let us live in his house because my dad and my uncle (from C family) work for him. Uncle B's wife always not happy bout us living in her husband's house. Now she is asking my uncle B to move to his house ( the house that i'm currently living now); she's going to live with her mum. They have a 1 year old daughter and i'm sure my Uncle B wouldn't be happy to live apart from his family. Uncle's B wife's action is to let us know that we should move away from the place that is not belong to us, and she will only move in to this house once both my family and C family move out. in other words, her intention is to cuck us out of the house! but the problem is that we have no where else to move to. We cant buy house because we're still not permanent recidence. And we cant aford to buy one because I'm going to UNI soon and my dad has to pay very expensive fees for me(as an international student). My family would end up moving back to our home country where i'll not have future that is as bright as i would have had over here. Once i've graduated, my family will have a better life and we'll not need to depend on my uncle B.

So now i'm planning to get a student loan or to loan some money to pay the tuition fees so that my dad could buy a house without worrying for my fees. But my mum said loan companies are not going to lend me money bacause I'm not a British and we have nothing. So could someone give some advice please? I'm now really worry bout my family's future.

Reply 1

TheShrimp

I can't give advice about the loans, as I'm not an international student myself, but try looking here:
www.direct.gov.uk/studentfinance

Also, I don't think it's fair that your family is putting so much pressure on you to secure their future - teenagers have enough to worry about & it'll take at least 3 years for you to graduate & even then you're unlikely to find a high-paying job straight away.

What is Family C going to do when they get thrown out of the house?

What about renting a property through using Family C's & your family's finances?

What about council housing?

Good luck.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Family C has no financial problem at all. Unfortunately, we don't get on well with family C but that was not my family's fault at all, it's Family C's fault. They are too selfish, no one in the world will please them. so we wouldn't buy a house together. We can't get council house because we are not British Citizen.

i can feel the weight on my dad's and my shoulder. my mum's putting more and more pressures on me. And i feel like going to collaps soon. My mum said that if we end up in a bad situation, i'll have to work so that i can suport the youngers in future. That's simply NOT FAIR, and she broke my heart from saying that. I did told her that that's not fair for me but she said that's what the elders have to do! What kind of mother is that!

Reply 3

supernova2

Why dont your family live in the country they came from and you carry on going to uni here?

Other than that try to get a loan, anyway possible. In the long run itll help.

Reply 4

vwfly

It's very likely you can not get a good job after your graduation.It is so difficult even for a British .So it is unlikely to find a high-salary job in a few months as a non-native.After graduation,you can get your parents with you as soon as possible when your situation is allowable.

If your parents have nothing to do,I could not see any reason they waste time here.