Sorry I need to have a moan

Sorry this may be long and i know this sounds pathetic. This guy liked me and I liked him and we were just flirting for months, he would always chase me, admitted he liked me, and we would meet up all the time and be able to chat about anything, and one night we started kissing and looked like we were getting somewhere beyond just flirting, and then the next day after he didn't want anything more to do with me. But the thing is ever since then we haven't been liked we used to be, we dont even talk anymore and i miss it so much. I feel like I'm in love with him, there's no one else I want to be with, I dont find ANYONE else attractive. When Im out I just keep wishing he'll walk in. I miss him so much it hurts. I used to chase him quite a lot after he said he wasnt interested but ive stopped and last time i heard from him was 3 weeks ago and i havent heard from him since after he said about randomly meeting up. I wont chase him again, I just wanted to write this out because I so need to rant.

Reply 1

zain88

1

Anonymous

Sorry this may be long and i know this sounds pathetic. This guy liked me and I liked him and we were just flirting for months, he would always chase me, admitted he liked me, and we would meet up all the time and be able to chat about anything, and one night we started kissing and looked like we were getting somewhere beyond just flirting, and then the next day after he didn't want anything more to do with me. But the thing is ever since then we haven't been liked we used to be, we dont even talk anymore and i miss it so much. I feel like I'm in love with him, there's no one else I want to be with, I dont find ANYONE else attractive. When Im out I just keep wishing he'll walk in. I miss him so much it hurts. I used to chase him quite a lot after he said he wasnt interested but ive stopped and last time i heard from him was 3 weeks ago and i havent heard from him since after he said about randomly meeting up. I wont chase him again, I just wanted to write this out because I so need to rant.

awww did he say he wasn't interested anymore just after you kissed? i hate guys who are unpredictable! i'd really like to know what made him change his mind so quick. did he give a reason why he wasn't interested anymore or did he just start ignoring you? maybe he thought of you guys as just sort of flirty friends and didn't expect things to go anywhere but when you kissed he realised things were moving forward and he backed out pronto.

maybe once you both get over your feelings with each other you might be able to start talking again just as friends?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

it wasnt straight after, like a couple of weeks after i asked him why he suddenly started going cold with me. he said he didnt want a relationship with me. now he's disappeared. :frown:

shame cos we were so close before, i just miss him so much :frown:

Reply 3

zain88

1

awwwwww honey thats such a shame :frown:

i can really feel for you because i hate becoming distant from people, it's so sad losing people!

you WILL meet other people like him in the future so although you miss him now you won't in a few weeks/months time!

Reply 4

britgal'04

you'll be ok in the end

Reply 5

Pseudomuse

1

awww thats a shame, what a ****** but remeber...time is a great healer..... unless you got a rash in which case your better off with ointment! :biggrin:

Reply 6

stoney

12

*Radioactive Phoenix*

awww thats a shame, what a ****** but remeber...time is a great healer..... unless you got a rash in which case your better off with ointment! :biggrin:

lol Red Dwarf?

Reply 7

Profesh

20

stoney

lol Red Dwarf?

"Quotation is a serviceable substitute for wit." - Oscar Wilde

Sorry I need to have a moan

Related discussions

Articles for you

How The Student Room is moderated