confused

Right about a week ago on msn my boyfriends ex acused that my boyfriend had tried to kiss her, flirt with her and spank her. Obviously this shock our relationship but since we had been together 5 months and nothing like this had happened and there was no proof i decided to let it go. BUt the other day i was looking through through his sent messeges cause we had sent each other saucy ones and i had to delete them otherwise my dad might hae seen him if he borrowed my phone and decided to have a look. I saw a lot from a certain contact curious i looked. Wrong i know, i know i wouldnt like it either but i did and and i saw hed been havve the same type of txts with someone else after confronting him about it i found it was one of his mates that he told me fancied him but he didn't like her in that way. HE said they didnt mean anything but i dont think that can happen and i dont know what to do. Please what would you do in this situation.

Reply 1

lirael2

tough one maybe you should ask way he done it in the first place. It doesnt sound good anyway

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

I should ask that maybe i dont know i cant take this im so pissed off at him but im trying not to let it show.

Reply 3

lirael2

Ive never been in a situation like. I think you should talk to your boyfrriend but I would be very suspisus of him at the minite

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Thank you lirael. People please help please please i havent been in this situation before and i dont want to make a wrong decision. I dont want a player as a boyfriend and beplayed but i dont want to lose a boyfriend that has been nothing but loving since we've been going out.