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Reply 1
Anonymous
Is somthing wrong with me i have slept with 7 men but have never climaxed once can someone help??:redface: :redface:


I know a woman who has same prob. Sex doesnt make her climax but masturbation does apparently ;/
Reply 2
some girls arnt capable of climaxing through pentration. Can you climax when your by yourself using your fingers. If you can maybe your not connected enough to these guys for your brain to be in the right place, to allow you to release and let go.
Reply 3
to be honest ive never masturbated and im 19 i personally dont like the idea (no disrespect to anyone)
Reply 4
ok, let me try a different question. when the guys are playing down there(not sex), can you climax. If you can is it from rubbing or pentration?
Reply 5
i have never climaxed ever even when being stimulated by rubbing or penetration
Reply 6
I think that's perfectly normal. A lot of women (I think the majority actually?) don't climax during sex, even though it feels good :smile:

Going solo, however, well! ^_^ Of course if you don't like the idea of that then that buggers you over a bit. As Glory was saying, your solution would be to let him sort you out in that department in a way that doesn't involve full on sex :smile:

Edit to account for the post above mine - what about him using his mouth, ie, oral sex?
Reply 7
Anonymous
to be honest ive never masturbated and im 19 i personally dont like the idea (no disrespect to anyone)


nor me.
Reply 8
i dont like oral because im not in control im very funny when it comes to sex
Reply 9
Anonymous
i dont like oral because im not in control im very funny when it comes to sex




ooo, oral helps.

do it do it do it.

:redface:
Reply 10
pumpkin7
nor me.


Why not may i ask
Reply 11
Markus Angelsdaughter
Why not may i ask


feels dirty... i don't know why.
Get yourself a kama sutra and try different positions. You're unlikely to climax through missionary, but most women have at least one position that does it for them.

No, i'm not telling you mine. :wink:
Next time do it seperalty, 7 men at one time is slightly crazy..


a funny....
Reply 14
not funny this is serious
i agree with going solo, i now know my body better than any guy and that way u'll be able to show him EXACTLY what you like! some girls can't climax through penetration alone, but there's lots of reasons that could be stopping you, like connection, stress, not be relaxed enough, thinking about it to much, maybe you need more foreplay or penetration and clitoral stimulation together. solo could be the way to go to try things out, it could work out way better in the end.
Reply 16
do you find sex enjoyable or is it also slighty dirty. I think you may be having problems, because you aint found how you like it and your head might not be in the right state of mind.

A vibe might help out, you dont need to get your hands dirty as such which is a reason some girls think its dirty. I think once youve climax once, it gets easier.
Anonymous
Is somthing wrong with me i have slept with 7 men but have never climaxed once can someone help??:redface: :redface:



you'll just have to wait til you find someone that knows what they're doing.
To be honest it sounds like you're not really willing to try much? Without an open mind it's pretty difficult to find a solution. What you're doing at the moment doesn't work, but you don't want to try anything else? Otherwise I'd suggest changing tactics slightly, doing things a bit differently, or just seeing if the right person comes along :smile:
Reply 19
one word...

grind.

:p: