Relationship - What to do?

Personally, I would leave well alone. You are getting involved in person family matters as well as her traditions. You were warned before you started seeing her about this, and you carried on regardless.

Brief Brakedown -
Started a relationship with a girl 2 months back. From day one she told me in terms of long run she might have to get married to some one else due to family. I agreed to carrying on seeing even though I knew this.
Then at the start of the 2nd month I find out shes engaged to this guy that her family wants to marry her.
She regrets it and wants to leave him for me but doesnt know what to do because of family.
Shes going back home (home country) in 3 weeks, where she will hardly be in contact with me because of the family. However her fiance will be no problem as he the family know about him. He calls her every day and she says she cares for him as a mate but couldnt marry him. She said she dreams about staying with me and she wish it could be true.

Now when she goes back home should I say somthing has to be done or me and her will be finished?

Due to her fiance at times I cant talk to her propperly without having thoughts of this situation at the back of my mind.

What should I do?

As I said, you knew what you were getting into. Rather than walk away at the beginning you allowed yourself to get into this situation.

She is currently involved with the both of you so my advice would be to take a big step back and tell her that until she ends it with him you two cannot see each other. It's up to you if you wait for her. My thoughts are that she will honour what he family wishes, and in seeing you is in a sense escaping reality.

Is she all mouth (telling you she wants tp leave him) and no action?

You have to ask this girl her family traditions and what has happened to similar girls who have defied an arranged marriage within her family and what is likely to happen to her or you if she decides to be with you.
How strict are the family? Would it be a dangerous thing for either you or her if you did get together with her? Would it just mean she'd become alienated from her family, severing ties?

It sounds like this is something this girl has to handle a great deal on her part. You can't barge your way in and try and stop this marriage, not really. She has to express her feelings to them herself and get out of the situation herself. Is it intertwined with her religion?

It appears to be a very difficult situation and you have to leave it up to her. As hard as it may seem, all the pressure is on this girl to sort out the situation.

So she hasn't actually done anything about it yet.

She hasn't told her family that this isn't what she wants?

Brief Brakedown -
Started a relationship with a girl 2 months back. From day one she told me in terms of long run she might have to get married to some one else due to family. I agreed to carrying on seeing even though I knew this.
Then at the start of the 2nd month I find out shes engaged to this guy that her family wants to marry her.
She regrets it and wants to leave him for me but doesnt know what to do because of family.
Shes going back home (home country) in 3 weeks, where she will hardly be in contact with me because of the family. However her fiance will be no problem as he the family know about him. He calls her every day and she says she cares for him as a mate but couldnt marry him. She said she dreams about staying with me and she wish it could be true.

Now when she goes back home should I say somthing has to be done or me and her will be finished?

Due to her fiance at times I cant talk to her propperly without having thoughts of this situation at the back of my mind.

What should I do?

Not to be rude, but haven't you posted this same problem repeatedly over the past few weeks?

Well bits and bobs but this is the most updated situation.
I cofronted her and she still says she wants to be with me - this is what she said in the texts -
She wasnt really up for discussing it and was being a little arquard to chat with. Thid is what was in the text:
Been really cranky lately, just getting a little home sick. don't mean to take it 'out on you. You deserve better.'

Then I told her this really cant continue unless you sort out the issue with your finace and thats up to you if you do.
She replied with: 'I dont care 4 him. I wish I wasnt in this mess. I dont want to let you go coz were so good together'. She then had to go but said we will discuss it tommorow.

In that case this has been dragging on for ages. Shes stringing you along in my opinion. I just cant see anyone being worth the amount of hassle you seem to be getting. At the end of the day she is engaged to someone else whether she likes it or not and I just think its so unfair of her to behave like this.

Cut her out of your life (as it hard as it may seem) and find yourself a girl who doesnt have so many family issues and also a fiance.

You don't think it would be wise to wait until then end of august when she will confront her family about it all? Lets say she does break of the engagement and all ties with him, then wouldnt that show that she is serious?

No. You have put your love life on hold long enough as it is. It really has gone on enough. If she were that interested she wouldnt be engaged to anouther man. Even if she honestly does like you, shes promised to anouther man.

Let go of her, remember the phrase - If you love someone, let them go. If they love you they will come back to you.

You have made it more than clear to her that you really like her, let her do some work from now on.

I think you've done the right thing.