Help! How do i make it up?

me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year really. in the beginning i was awful i was a total bitch. the countless times i made him cry and i basically broke his heart. we then broke up and after about three months we recently started talking again. we realised we both wanted to give it another go and i really truly am so sorry for all that i did and i really want to show him how sorry i am and how much i want to make this work, this is my last chance i can't mess up. all i want to do is make him happy and i never want him to regret the day he gave me this chance. i need some help in deciding how to show him this. writting poems? cooking for him? im not sure what to do on a budget of about £50. any ideas anyone?

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Reply 1

1013

You don't need to spend money to show you care. Just be a good, caring girlfriend and give him plenty of attention.

Reply 2

NuMbA1hUnEy

well i was thinking of a romantic evening just because we already planned to spend that night together in london i was just wondering if people had ideas as to how i can surprise him

Reply 3

NuMbA1hUnEy

oh come on people someone must have some clue?

Reply 4

Nocturnalia

Have a look at www.lovingyou.com in the ideas section.

Reply 5

Clarence

Love don't cost a thing.....J-Lo speaks some sense sometimes. Wow. Look at the alliteration on that. Blake would be proud.

Reply 6

The Mudman

Don't bother with poems. I can't see him being overly thrilled with that tbh. Cooking for him sounds like a good idea, but as 1013 said, just be the kind and attentive girlfriend you should have been in the first place.

Reply 7

Clarence

db subbed you........

Reply 8

The Mudman

Clarence

db subbed you........

Yes... Well spotted.

Sorry.

Clarence

Sorry.

For what?

Reply 11

scutt

Nocturnalia

Have a look at www.lovingyou.com in the ideas section.

Failing that, KidRobot has the most awesome of awesome things.

Reply 12

haroonyousaf

poetry might be good, he sounds like asensitive person if hes been crying over you. if that his hte case anything to show you care is fine. although after the way you treated him i dont know why he would take you back, if he does hes a fool.

Reply 13

Lover_21

You'd been together for over a year, then you broke up. Now you are together and all you are spending is £50? I wouldnt be surprised if you two broke up again. You could buy plenty of condoms for £50 though, not sure if you two had a physical relationship though.

Reply 14

Lover_21

Razor got it right though why is he willing to go back out with you, is he a fool or is there a reason?

Blowjob

Give him some flowers..

Reply 17

zav

razor

Maybe a fair point but does not give any advise and she is obviously sorry about it so cut her some slack. You don't know the guy either so calling a fool maybe a bit harsh, if he loves her that not being a fool.

Personally i think you should just be a nice good girlfriend. If you want to get him something buy him something meaningful that kind of means something between you two, it does not have to be expensive.

Instead of a poem why not just write a short letter saying in better wording thanks for giving you another shot and you are sorry love him, just show how you feel. Sometimes it is easier to write it down than to say it.

Hope it goes well

Reply 18

Lover_21

Poems, cooking, it's all to cliche. Do something original. What kind of guy is he? Maybe if you explain the type of person he is, what relationship you two held it would be more easy to suggest ideas. But your budget is quite low. If that's all you got, or if you are too cheap to spend more then treat him to do a day out. Spend a nice day with him. I got an idea - if you are going london anyway with him, do the romantic idea. Wear something really special and ask him to wear a suit. Go out on a romantic date in london you can find plenty of things to do, it is london! However please go to the nice areas of london, a romantic drip down East London isnt ideal. It will cost more but you said this is the only chance you got, so use it! Final surpise would be romantic room you have created in a hotel room. It would be amazing, guys love this kind of stuff. What you do in the hotel room . . . well Apagg (3 posts above me) gave a nice little suggestion.