Not sure how to go about things

This is the situation:

Three's this girl i met once, i got to know her, found out she went to a nearby school etc.

in the next cupla weeks my feelings developed for her- i sorta sked her out and asked what her feelings were.

basically, i dealt with her for a couple of weeks then we sorta broke-up together as she felt she didn't really want a relationship and all the connotations of that word

when i asked her what she meant by a relationship, she said, well, a) commintment , b) lack of independance c) said she's not ready for the physical side etc.

altho i dont know what she means when she says independance- does she want2 pull other boys etc.

dealing with her doesnt mean i wanna be with her 24/7 (shes the same way as well) e.g. during exams we totally cut-off contact (well nearly totally)

but i really wana get back with her and not sure what to do

she is the sweetest most beautiful girl i have ever met...we're still good mates and we spend hours chatting on msn

however, when we kinda broke-up, i thought i'd get over her but it seems that i cant stop thinking of her
everytime i see her, everytime i chat to her on the phone or online, i find myself liking her more and more

what can i do? and how could i persuade her to get back together?
(thanx in advance for helpful replies lol)

Reply 1

podder

true answer...you wont be able to persuade her. if she doesnt want to e with you then theres not much you can do. just keep being yourself and maybe things may turn around. dont keep asking her tho or being ott as that will drive her futher away

Reply 2

1013

I would say she probably just doesn't want a boyfriend right now and possibly wants the option of pulling other guys. Stay in contact if you can but don't force the issue.

Reply 3

naivesincerity

wow pretty pic 1013...

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

not much hope then

Reply 5

harry5069

Oh there's always hope, but from the sound of it you probably won't be able to get her back, don't let us stop you if you really want to go for it though.