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tongues, tongues, tongues!

i recently just kissed my now bf for the first time, but it was all tongues!! which wld be fine later on, but this was my first proper kiss! and i need a lil time to get used to it you know?? how can i subtly try and kiss him without loadsa tongues action?!?! :s

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Reply 1

generalebriety

The easy way is to keep your tongue in your own mouth and ask him to do the same. :rolleyes:

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

OMG, i had the same problem as you. Just try and keep your tongue in your mouth and every time he uses his, back away from the kiss. I know its a lil harsh but i did it, and eventually, you'll find that he'll ask you whats wrong. Thats when you should tell him gently that you feel uncomfortable with it and its too sudden for you. I'm sure he'll understand. It worked for me! Good luck xXxX

Reply 3

Clarence

Some guys just like it.....it puts me off.

Reply 4

sexysax

If you tell him, he should understand :smile:

Reply 5

Glory

just talk to him, say you dont think its the right time for using tongues. Honestly if people just talk to each other it would save half of the arguements and misunderstandings.

Reply 6

The Mudman

Cut off his tongue, and only return it when you are ready for the proper kisses :rolleyes:

Reply 7

ImperceptibleNinja

The Mudman

Cut off his tongue, and only return it when you are ready for the proper kisses :rolleyes:

So you don't support the idea of them actually talking to each other then? I'd say talking would be a less painful/messy/barbaric option, and probably rather wise.

Reply 8

The Mudman

Hey, I'm all for talking things over. I'm just saying she has other options...

Reply 9

Apagg

Bite it if he pushes it in again

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Reply 10

Clarence

I want to kiss my last kiss now.

Reply 11

*~vicki~*

do you mean the last kiss you had? if so, me too... :biggrin:

Reply 12

Lover_21

People should not be asking how to kiss on a forum.

Reply 13

crazy4dancin

*~vicki~*

do you mean the last kiss you had? if so, me too... :biggrin:

Me too my last kiss was on saturday, never kissed that guy before and he was spot on. One of the best kisses in my opinion not a lot of tongue either.

It's **** when they are forceful with their tongue if this guy doesn't get your hints just say ' I like the way you kiss but can we try a little less tongue because I'm not quite sure what to do and stuff, we can always introduce our tongues again at a later date' lolxx