are vibrators really big!?

so, this is a really dodgy and odd question, i know.

anyway, im a virgin, but i bought a vibrartor about a week ago, it's not small, but it wasnt the largest in the shop by a long way. However, everytime i use it it hurts, even when i have lots of lube.

i thought it was because of the wholse "first time" and the hymen deal, but surely it shouldnt hurt now? Are vibrartors generally bigger than the real thing, or shoulfd i worry? :eek:

Reply 1

Helenia

Hmmm...yesterday you posted a thread about losing your virginity...I'm inclined to doubt the veracity of either thread now...

Reply 2

BobMob

It depends on the vibrator and the guy really doesn't it!

Without knowing how big yours actually is, I couldn't tell you.

Reply 3

Tarts_n_Vicars

Also depends on what you're used to........

Reply 4

sleepy_person!

thanks for that image!

Ew

Reply 5

pete42

why would you want to lose your virginity to a vibrator anyway?? wouldn't you have rather waited to lose it to a guy you really like?? i don't get it

Reply 6

username9303

pete42

why would you want to lose your virginity to a vibrator anyway?? wouldn't you have rather waited to lose it to a guy you really like?? i don't get it

Well if you do bleed then you'd be able to get that out of the way by yourself, giving you much less chance of any bleeding ruining your real first time :smile:

Reply 7

Tarts_n_Vicars

Aww you're so thoughtful Ollie.

Reply 8

Dragon24

Talk about safe sex, lol.

Reply 9

1013

Vibes tend to be on the upper scale of what you can expect in a real life partner, so if you can use one then it might make your first time less painful.. I think it's a good idea to break yourself in with one. Although, if Helenia is right, then you may be telling porkies!

Reply 10

NViasko

I assume they come in all different kinds of shapes, sizes and forms.

Reply 11

Helenia

I should point out to everyone posting that just because you've broken your hymen does not mean you're not a virgin. So enough of the crude jokes. And given my doubts over the truth of this thread, it's closing.