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Indian and Pakistani relationship maybe its time to end it all.

So i've gone out with this girl for 3 years. We get a long SO well but for a few reasons we broke up, even then 2-3 years after our breakup we still pretty much act like a couple. We talk everyday we go out for dinner and sometimes we even fool around. Now the problem is that I feel that if we were ever to get together there will be problems with family. I am Indian and she is Pakistani, I am very family oriented but I feel she wont be accepted into my family and may not fit well into my family. She loves me and I do her but I also love my family but thats only one problem. I hate her family they are all a bunch of losers who do drugs or think they are gangster, I wouldnt want to be involved in that if we get married. Heres the problem however, she has gone through a very hard life and i've been there for her through a lot of it. I feel that if we still stay friends I may be giving her wrong signals and leading her on when I dont feel we would work out, then again I dont want to leave her since im pretty much all she has. I dont want her to go through hard times when I am not there for her. Also if I ever plan to live in India it will be very difficult purely because she is Pakistani.


Another thing to mention is that shes my first and vice versa, I feel that maybe because its always just been her and I we havent had the chance to meet others and havent got the chance to find out if theres more out there?

So thats it, were best friends, we have shared a lot of important events in our lives and we do love each other but its just not possible, please give some advice on what to do next.
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Sparkle24
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It is your life. Take charge.
I thought this thread was going to be about the relationship of the actual countries.
But surely if you love each other so much you can make it work?

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