G/f has tonsilitus intimacy help.

Hey,

Today I found out my girlfreind has Tonsilitus (sp?) however Friday she is meant to be coming over for some "fun", now obviously we can't kiss but she still wants a bit of fun.
Keeping it as clean as possible, can anyone suggest how I can give her a good time without kissing?
I wouldnt ask but kissing is one of her favourite things, so I'm looking for something that would equal it.

Thanks

Reply 1

generalebriety

You can give her a good time by refusing to kiss. Kissing would hurt like hell and probably not be nice for you either. Tell her to wait till she's better. :confused:

Edit: or go down the traditional route and go out somewhere together.

Reply 2

Clarence

I would never have sex with a sick person.

Reply 3

Glory

blind folded Stroking her with a feather or soemthing or blind folded food tasting. :smile:

Food and sickness makes you feel so much better

Reply 4

generalebriety

Glory

blind folded Stroking her with a feather or soemthing or blind folded food tasting. :smile:

Food tasting? Tonsillitis?

Pain?

Reply 5

Lil' Miss Smiley

You could kiss her elsewhere and I meant that cleanly.

Reply 6

Glory

generalebriety

Food tasting? Tonsillitis?

Pain?

nah, i had my tonsils out and ice cream and jelly is fun. Tonsils out hurts more than tonsilitious from my experience.

Reply 7

mattyboi2k8

Would a massage bring up a tonne of mucus?

Reply 8

generalebriety

Glory

nah, i had my tonsils out and ice cream and jelly is fun. Tonsils out hurts more than tonsilitious from my experience.

Yes but presumably it doesn't hurt much after they've been taken out but does before they're taken out. I thought rather a common symptom of tonsillitis was painful tonsils. :rolleyes:

Reply 9

Glory

kacas

Would a massage bring up a tonne of mucus?

doubt it, if shes got a dodgy chest, massage else where. feet or hands :smile:

Reply 10

gemini_love

ermmm, i might just be super awesome or something but I've had tonsilitus on and off for the past 2 years quite severely and no one's ever caught it off me nor have i ever really cared about kissing someone when ill....

just take some ibuprofen, eat some ice-cream and have a cold drink, that will cure it for a couple of hours.

if that doesn't help she's too ill to go out...haha

Reply 11

Glory

i really found eating ice cream helped kill the pain, thats why i suggested taste testing. Food just seemed to help.

Reply 12

mattyboi2k8

but she doesnt want to risk it, but a massage would be ok then gemini?

Reply 13

gemini_love

yeah, a massage would be fine.....

honest advice in a blunt way, assuming you guys are pretty comfortable with each other....

kiss her all over her body and give her an all over body massage although warning if she's anything like me it makes me really relaxed and sleepy.

kiss her.....in that place, rub your body against hers.....

Reply 14

Bubblebee

I have tonsillitis right now! I always get it and I have never given it to anyone either. I didn't really realise you weren't alowed to kiss with it... Oh dear...

Reply 15

Glory

thought glandular fever was the only one you shouldnt be kissing with.

Reply 16

gemini_love

Bubblebee

I have tonsillitis right now! I always get it and I have never given it to anyone either. I didn't really realise you weren't alowed to kiss with it... Oh dear...

haha, you're not really meant to but most of the time it's not actually contagious, it's only glandular fever that is which is similar....tonsilitus is when your tonsils grow big because they're trying to fight off a virus/bacteria, so techinically it's not really contagious.

But as i said, i've kissed about 4/5 people before, one of which i kiss all the time and nothing's happened to them

Reply 17

Bubblebee

Hmm, I know I get it all the time cause my immune system is so weak, I guess the virus I have must not be stong enough to infect the big strong muscley 'brad pittalikes' I kiss.....hmmm