Is this a turn off?

NB: I am female...

Is telling a guy that you him like a turn off? For example is showing interest or feelings? I don't mean stalking or proposals but just little hints and jokes about liking them.....

What would turn a guy off about a girl making the first move. I am interested to hear guys' opinions but girls you can share your experiences too.... Bit new to this dating lark :rolleyes:

No it is not.

It certainly isn't. Most guys would be flattered. I know I would.

Reply 3

mortderire

10

well no, if i like a girl, and she tells me that she likes me, then it's a good signal if i wanna make a move

Reply 4

Handy

10

It's good, especially if the guy is shy.

Reply 5

Laursy

10

if i tell a guy i like him, i think its a turn off but ive got so many issues, within myself about guys that i think its a bad thing!!!

if a guy tells me he likes me i think the same, im really negative!!!

Reply 6

Parsons

not a turn off...

as anonymous 2 said, prolly be flattered. and add to his confidence in your friendship/relationship.

Exactly...

Obviously not.

would a guy be flattered even if he didn't like the girl?

as in not laughing in her face and acting like an idiot!!

Reply 10

Crazster

16

If she's hot i'd be flattered. If not i'd me like...

Reply 11

loopymeg

13

If I had a quid for every time a guy said to me that they wished girls would make the first move, then I'd be very rich by now!

Reply 12

Bis

1

Anonymous

would a guy be flattered even if he didn't like the girl?

as in not laughing in her face and acting like an idiot!!

Probably, unless it was over the top.

Reply 13

Anonymous #3

if she just took him aside and said, i like you, or dropped it in a conversation not like moving heaven and earth to find the most public way to tell him,

if the girl is an old friend, and something happened like just kissed, and then she said she liked you, would you run a mile!!!

Reply 14

rawkingpunkster

haha its not a turn off :biggrin:

whywould it be

Reply 15

halfoflessthan50p

12

Its only girls who like to complicate everything with the opposite sex.

For a guy directness is hardly ever a problem

Reply 16

high priestess fnord

9

halfoflessthan50p

Its only girls who like to complicate everything with the opposite sex.

LIES!!!

Reply 17

mortderire

10

exactly, we guys drop the hints, it's the gals who play hard to get,
i think its all the romantic notions they have of getting asked out

Reply 18

Profesh

20

Anonymous

NB: I am female...

Is telling a guy that you him like a turn off? For example is showing interest or feelings? I don't mean stalking or proposals but just little hints and jokes about liking them.....

What would turn a guy off about a girl making the first move. I am interested to hear guys' opinions but girls you can share your experiences too.... Bit new to this dating lark :rolleyes:

I actually find that attractive in itself.

Reply 19

strawberry

13

for the record, I asked my (ex) boyfriend out. lol

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