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Reply 1
Positive advantage :biggrin:

..although maybe not the first date..
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Reply 2
Would I be unattracted to a girl that wanted to have sex with me?

ehh... no
Reply 3
And the next topic: If booze were free, would it put you off drinking?
Can the pope say mass ?
Based on a thorough analysis of the above answers, I'd suggest that the answer is 'no', OP.
In all seriousness why should you be ashamed that you want to have sex and enjoy yourself on a date ? It's ridiculous that women should feel that they have to wait a number of dates, if you want it just go for it tbh
Reply 7
I had sex with my girlfriend after about two hours of meeting her, that was nearly three years ago. Any guy who rejects a girl because she agrees with him about how long is appropriate to have sex is a flipping idiot who probably has a fairly ****ty view of women.
Reply 8
Original post by emma t
I have a very high sex drive so find it hard not to initiate sex with guys I date quite early on? Would this put you off a girl if you actually liked her.

It wouldn't bother me, might bother some other people, not me though
Reply 9
Hmmm, nope I wouldnt say so. If everything else is going on fine, you like each other and the chemistry is flowing, and thats what feels right, Id say go for it.
Reply 10
OK...surprised by the responses but happy. I always feel like I need to follow rules an wait but if it just feels right seems silly not to go with it. I just worry that guys might loose interest once they have had the sex but I guess if they really liked me they wouldn't loose interest.
Generally Id say it would put me off. And that doesnt mean I have a ****ty view of women.
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Reply 12
Original post by emma t
OK...surprised by the responses but happy. I always feel like I need to follow rules an wait but if it just feels right seems silly not to go with it. I just worry that guys might loose interest once they have had the sex but I guess if they really liked me they wouldn't loose interest.


Indeed. If you feel like they are the right person, there's no need to have a predetermined time before you have sex.

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Wish there were more girlsl like you OP.
I get that your a girl and everything but im just gunna put this out there if a guy wanted sex with me on a first date.....:plz2: . It would put me off.
Original post by emma t
OK...surprised by the responses but happy. I always feel like I need to follow rules an wait but if it just feels right seems silly not to go with it. I just worry that guys might loose interest once they have had the sex but I guess if they really liked me they wouldn't loose interest.


The only thing that would put me off is your shocking spelling.
Original post by emma t
OK...surprised by the responses but happy. I always feel like I need to follow rules an wait but if it just feels right seems silly not to go with it. I just worry that guys might loose interest once they have had the sex but I guess if they really liked me they wouldn't loose interest.
Well that's just a risk guys & girls have to take if they have sex early on, it can be reduced if you wait a little longer but there is not really any set rule or anything. If both parties agree & are comfortable with it then why not?
Original post by Just Another Girly
I get that your a girl and everything but im just gunna put this out there if a guy wanted sex with me on a first date.....:plz2: . It would put me off.


Harsh. Obviously it's fine if you don't feel comfortable doing it, but if you go on a date with someone, it goes well, you find them attractive and like their personality, are enjoying yourself, it seems reasonable to make a move. We can't read minds y'know, don't ask don't get.
Reply 18
I don't even think sex on the first date is slutty or off-putting if you get along well. First meeting/blind date then maybe yeah, but if you've chatted with someone gave them your number and then met for a date nothing wrong with it!
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Original post by Mankytoes
Harsh. Obviously it's fine if you don't feel comfortable doing it, but if you go on a date with someone, it goes well, you find them attractive and like their personality, are enjoying yourself, it seems reasonable to make a move. We can't read minds y'know, don't ask don't get.


Yh but it's a first date. Most I'd go for is a kiss and that would be pushing it. 'A move' shouldn't equal to straight up sex. :sigh: what comes to mind when people say 'a move ' is like you know when your watching a movie and the guy puts his arm around you. That that's a move.

I agree woth you saying that it is reasonable for you to make a move if your having a good time but too much of a good thing is bad. Plus if you give yourself over after one date what will you have left to give? :moon: