how long before you had sex?

just curious as to how long you had been going out with your boyfriend/girlfriend before you gave them oral or had sex. Also can u say if you were a virgin or not.

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

Had sex with first and only g/f after 3 months together, and oral on the first night. :redface:

Reply 2

gemini_love

i gave him oral the first night we were together as i was drunk....

I didn't have sex with him at all or anywhere close until we'd been going out about 10 months.
I had to be sure it was what i wanted to do and not just something that i did just because it was natural for things to progress there.

Reply 3

gemini_love

and not to mention i wanted to make sure i did it with someone who i knew i was gonna be with a little bit longer after that....we're still together now...a year on, haha

Reply 4

Ting-Ting

Waited 4 months before losing my virginity to my first bf..then broke up 2months aftwerwards coz i went to uni hehe.

With my current bf of two years.....we got together after a one night stand :rolleyes:

Reply 5

gemini_love

Ting-Ting

Awww, that's really cute, I love it how things like that happen

Reply 6

Samoan

had sex before we were together....we had been really good friends for a couple of years tho

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

my first boyfriend, waited 4 months, we stayed together 3 years...second boyfriend 3 days :redface:

and it's been a month and counting...

Reply 8

iceman_jondoe

er.....6 months? never had sex though

Reply 9

Kate.

We had sex before we were properly 'going out', with my current boyfriend, oral a few weeks later. Neither of us were virgins. With my first, I waited like 3 months before oral and 6 months before sex or something. Ages.